When I first started going out with my husband I was a single mother of 3 I lived on the other side of town. I WAS self sufficient and paying all my bills and I was almost divorced from my first husband. Things were not perfect in my townhouse finally though breathing room..My rules..my kids ahh life.
I escaped a controlling abusive first husband and HIS family via domestic abuse group home and now i was on my own. My parents helped me get the down payment for the security for this rental, and for the utilities and my soon to be ex husband had via the court system visitations every other weekend so I was free from Friday to Sunday nights and wow was that weird.
I hooked up with old friends and went out to a local bar and when I say old friends I mean people I knew since the 6th grade like 11 years old this local bar was a restaurant also.
There was a time I had like nine years without a drink or weed or anything and i had a black hole in my soul because I never worked on childhood sexual abuse issues just until recently but that is an entirely different facet to my story....This particular night I am speaking of well I met my current husband again. I knew him since I was in 6th grade. I used to sit in front of him in 6th grade. He used to peek down my shirt. I used to write on his jeans...I remember thinking when I was younger he has alot of growing up to do but ill catch up to him...That night I heard all about his life his son his divorce and all the juicy details...he heard about mine too....I noticed all his sexy lines under his eyes and how men get sexier and how woman age and look like OLD bags hahahah I was at my heaviest like 330 pounds and this guy was like 172 and he asked me out on a date....I mean I'm okay looking from 1-10 I guess you can say I'm like an 8 and even at my heaviest i was looked at but I thought it was because I was FAT! I am sure of that..
(Original Airdate: 11/01/05) Do you know someone who is so exacting about the smallest of things that they are borderline obsessive? Dr. Phil speaks with guests whose perfectionistic ways are destroying their relationships. Beth does everything in her power to create a "Stepford-like" existence for her family. But her husband, Tony, says, "Don't be fooled, things are not what they appear to be!" Will her façade of perfection destroy her marriage? And what toll is it taking on their children? And, Robin is prepared to give her husband, Brad, the walking papers if he doesn't stop criticizing every move she makes. Plus, a self-described controlling viewer challenges Dr. Phil! Talk about the show here.
