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Imagine hearing voices that don’t really exist, thinking lasers are shooting through your walls or believing that people are coming into your home through electrical outlets. For people with schizophrenia, these types of delusions and paranoia are part of daily life. Mary sees angels and demons and has even believed her husband was a demon in disguise. Then, Ann Marie and Tim would give anything to help their mother. She talks emphatically to people who aren’t there and speaks nonsense to her own children. Watch her erratic behavior captured on camera and find out whether her case is beyond treatment. Plus, two sisters, Melanie and Rachel, want to know if their minds could be ticking time bombs. Talk about the show here.

 

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November 23, 2005, 2:59 pm PST

Thank you Dr. Phil

  I am glad that you aired a show on people dealing with schizophrenia . I work with MHMR and it is so sad the way our society treat all people that are MR or that have MH issues, and they don't realize that it could happen to any one of us. 
 
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November 23, 2005, 3:02 pm PST

God bless you Mary

First of all Mary, may God bless you for your courage in letting everyone know what people really experience.  I know that you said the voices tell you that you are fat and ugly.  What I took from the show is this:  When you smiled, your smile lights up your entire face.  You are not only a beautiful person on the inside, you are truely beautiful on the outside.   

I would also like to applaud your husband, for caring, for sharing and sticking with you through this all, what a wonderful man you truely are!  Oh that the world possessed more men like you. 

Stay strong Mary, you will be such a role model to all those people dealing with the same thing you are dealing with.  I wish you only the very best in life.   You deserve it.  

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:05 pm PST

Help me!

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HI, 

 

WE TOTALLY UNDERSTAND. MY HUSBAND HAS SCHIZOPHRENIA. HE IS ONLY 22 AND I AM 21. WE WERE MARRIED 3 1/2 YEARS AGO. IT'S SO SCARY KNOWING ONE DAY HE WILL POSSIBLY NOT REMEMBER ME AND THE LIFE WE SHARE. BUT, YOU KNOW WHAT MY HUSBAND EVEN THOUGH HAVING THIS ILLNESS I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. JUST KNOWING THAT HE GOES TO WORK AND TREATS ME LIKE I'M HIS WORLD PLUS HAVING TO HEAR THE VOICES AND DEAL WITH THE STRUGGLES OF THIS ILLNESS MAKES ME NOT THINK, BUT KNOW THAT HE IS STRONGER AND SMARTER THEN ANY PERSON WITHOUT THIS ILLNESS. HE TOLD ME " Honey we have to create wonderful memories now, so we have something to fall back on .When maybe.. just one day... I won't be here mentally." YES MY HUSBAND AND I ALWAYS THINK OF THE FUTURE AND WHAT MIGHT BE INSTORE FOR US. WE HAVE NO CHILDREN FOR THE FEAR OUR CHILDREN MIGHT INHERIT THE SAME DISORDER. SO ADOPTION IS A BLESSING FOR US.  SPOUSES THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR YOUR SPOUSE KEEP IT STRONG, KEEP IT PURE. I KNOW YOU TRULY DO LOVE THEM AND MY HUSBAND AND I THANK YOU FOR GIVING YOUR SPOUSE STRENGTH AND LOVE THEY NEED. 

 

PEOPLE LISTEN IF YOU FOUND THAT YOU HAVE THIS ILLNESS DON'T ALLOW IT TO RIP YOUR LIFE APART. YOU MAKE YOUR LIFE. IT WILL GET HARDER BUT THAT'S WHEN YOU BECOME STRONGER. AND DON'T THINK YOUR NOT SMART BECAUSE OF IT. MY HUSBAND IS CERTIFIED IN THREE AREAS OF MECHANICS AND CAN WELD, BUILD HOMES, ELECTRICAL WORK,  AND IS CURRENTLY A ENGINEER AND A FOREMAN OF HIS SHOP. PREPARTION AND UNDERSTANDING AND LOVE IS THE KEY TO THIS ILLNESS. WE KNOW IT'S TOUGH. AND DON'T THINK YOUR NOT NORMAL WHAT IS NORMAL THESE DAYS? THE EARLIER YOU EXPERINCE THE TRIALS OF THE ILLNESS YOU BECOME MORE AND MORE PREPARED FOR THE NEXT TRIALS IN LIFE. MY HUSBAND AND OTHERS WITH THIS ILLNESS ARE TOUGHER THEN ANYONE I KNOW. I COMPLAIN OVER A HEADACHE WHEN MY HUSBAND NEVER COMPLAINS OF WHAT HE SEES OR HEARS. WOW WHAT A MAN. 

 

OUR HEART GOES OUT TO ALL WITH THE ILLNESS OR NOT. DON'T FORGET TO "LIVE LIFE!" 

I just posted a message about the person I am dating. He is suffering from schizophrenia, and I hope that you will write me back! I could use some support! Thanks, Tori 

E-mail me please 

trm_hhs18@yahoo.com  

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:09 pm PST

How to get help?

I was immediately drawn to the TV when I overheard the situation Ann Marie and Tim face with regard to their mother’s mental illness.  My older sister suffers from the exact symptoms and deals with many of the same paranoia attacks.  She has been diagnosed with bi-polar and a manic depressive disorder, and has been legally labeled insane for a charged criminal act.  Our family has had numerous court orders to try getting her the proper help that she needs.  She insists that there is nothing wrong with her, just as Ann Marie's mother has done.  With previous court orders, she is held for only a few days and released.  My sister's illness became prevalent with her addiction to illegal drugs.  I have concerns that she continues to abuse illegal drugs, and/or prescribed medications.  She does not take her medication properly, this I do know.  I'm not sure she is able to do so with her given mental state.  She is divorced and has 2 daughters.  Her oldest daughter, age 21, carries most of this huge weight herself.  She, along with every other family member, has tried to get her the help she needs ...to no avail.  My "real" sister is a very loving, caring, talented lady...she would do anything for anybody, give you her last dime, and surely make you smile and laugh.  Unfortunately, at age 39, she lives an unthinkable life.  I can't see how her body can last much longer.  I do fear that she may hurt herself and that she 'could' hurt someone else.  With most of her teeth rotted and gone, her hair completely pulled out piece-by-piece, no sleep, and no food....how can her body continue?  Please???!!!  If there is a suggestion or recommendations that can help us get her the help she so desperately needs ~ tell me -------  We are at a loss for what to do next.  I had lost so much hope, until today, feeling that unless she commits a major crime that sends her to prison - she will never get the help she needs....that she so desperately deserves!  Thank you… Ann Marie and Tim for sharing your story.  It  has helped me restore my faith and hope for her future with this horrible mental illness.  I really started to think she was just 'crazy'.  I'm telling you the scenes are so similar...voices, CIA watching her through the TV, the murder mysteries, phones unhooked, blankets hung over things (like the TV) so people can't see her....right down to the crazy talk about her and President Bush.  Unfortunately, I live 1200 miles away from my sister (she lives in IA and I live in LA) so I'm not there to support for my nieces who deal with this everyday.  My father, who lives in the same town, is in denial about 1/2 of the time and the other 1/2 he struggles with guilt as if he is responsible.  I do have an older sister who is a mental health specialist.  She, too, has tried absolutely everything to get her help.  I don't know what is next??  But, after today, I don't want to give up trying.  I would give anything to give her back her life!  It would offer the greatest gift to my nieces, who need and want their mother to be part of their lives.  Finally, for anyone who knows Mona (the true MONA) you would agree that a person with her character and genuine good heartedness deserves a better life.  Thank you.  

 

  

 

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:10 pm PST

i understand!

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I've been dealing with a mother with mental illness since Ive been alittle girl,My mom became ill in 1972 back then ,they really didnt know what to call it,I witness her take shock therapy and has been on all kinds of drugs to stop the voices,My mom always believes nothing is wrong.Im so angry at the state for making have to go to court every to have her put on meds. I feel the state should make her stay on meds for life ,I',m 42 years old and still taking care of her,Its along hard road to deal with but If I didnt stay and help my mom Im afraid she would be on the street homeless.Im so happy Dr Phil is doing show on the subject ,I feel so lost and angry about my mother sometimes and really dont know where to go to talk to someone about it,

I'm basically in the same boat as you.  I can remember my mom being taking away when I was 5 to go to the hospital for the first stay....here it is 30 years later...but now I am the one who has to make those tough decisions.  However, I went to court and was granted a "limited guardianship" for medical decisions when my mom is having issues and can't make logical decisions.  I don't have to go back to court each time that I need to hospitalize her.  I do have to fill out some yearly paperwork for the court system, but it really isn't a big deal.   

  

  

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:10 pm PST

Chemical imbalance

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That poor girl that sees demons and hears voices, she needs more than medicine, she needs prayer, lots of it. I believe she is suffering from a generational curse, its demonic. She needs an exorcisim, only God can help her! 
 

Often a person with frontal lobe epilepsy may not know they have this disorder but will see divine or demonic visions. Similarly a person with a psychosis or schizophrenia may hear "voices, or demons" or even smell things that none else can smell. The following is an encyclopedia definition of epilepsy.  Perhaps someone decades ago prayed for a person with the same disorder, we now have medication that can help with the uncomfortable effects of her chemical imbalance.  

Epilepsy Epilepsy (often referred to as a seizure disorder) is a chronic neurological condition characterized by recurrent unprovoked seizures. The condition is named from the Greek epilepsy ("a taking hold of or seizing"). It is commonly controlled with medication, although experimental surgical methods are slowly gaining acceptance.

In the past, epilepsy has been associated with religious experiences and even demonic possession. Historically, epilepsy was called the "Sacred Disease" because people thought that epileptic seizures were a form of attack by demons, and that the visions epileptics experienced were sent by the Gods. Hippocrates remarked that epilepsy would be considered divine only until it was understood [1]

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:11 pm PST

thank you

thank you so much for airing a show on the issues of schizophrenia and mental illness. i am a nurse working on an acute inpatient mental healh unit who works every day with people afflicted with this and other mental illnesses.  

  

Mary, you are a strong, beautiful person who has shared valuable information with the world about this very important issue. Professionals can lecture until they can no longer speak, but people like you are the ones who can really teach about mental illness. I learned about all of the mental illnesses in books before seeing a client with schizophrenia, major depression or bipolar disorder. No book can tell you as much as spending just 5 minutes with someone living the experience of the illness. You struggle daily to live a life with your husband and son, and have immense strength to share with the world your experience. I hope you continue to teach those around you.   

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:19 pm PST

Please Help

I am worried that i may have Schizophrenia. I have a small case of ADD and I am Dyslexic, so I dont know if that has any thing to do with it. 

I havent seen people/ demons while I was awake, but I have dreams of people critisizing me and makeing me feel like i cant do things good and Im not good enough, often they are people I know. 

I also feel as if some one is always watching me when ever I am alone and I tend to hear foot steps when I am alone, as if they are coming towards me.  

I also imagin things happen to me.. and I also have like kind of arguments in my head with a voice that isnt mine. Once I heard my self (the self that doesnt sound like me) telling me that i should kill my self and every one would be happier. 

  

Please Contact me ASAP.  

 
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November 23, 2005, 3:21 pm PST

Mary

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I am the one with schizophrenia on the show.  In response to your post, I got sick when i was 18.  I had my first full psychotic break then.  I was unmedicated for years struggling with this disease, self medicating with alcohol and running the streets.   I was not medicated at all for anything when the schizophrenia started. I will wait for the show to air before sharing any more.  I'm sure the show will cover alot of what I might say here. 
You are very brave being only 18 years old. My husband had a psychotic breakdown before we married. All people during a break down have symptoms of all the mental illnesses including schizophrenia. Never let a doctor try all different kinds of medication. That alone will cause such a chemical imbalance they really don't know what to diagnose. Make sure you always have another significant other to monitor that you always take the medicine they have you on. Never just stop taking it as another relapse will surely happen. I took my husband home, gave him his pills (only Lithium) as he was diagnosed as bi-polar. I bought Christian books and tapes and he read the Bible daily and prayed without ceasing. He never had another breakdown for 15 years. A significant other I believe is the MOST important. And a good Christian counselor. Your friend, Cindy
 
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November 23, 2005, 3:22 pm PST

11/23 Schizophrenia

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I was 30 years old before I was diagnosed. I went through many years of torment and pain with my husband and son because I wasn't medicated properly and I was dealing with alot of stress. The things I have seen and heard, the voices, the paranoia, the delusions....I can't even begin to tell you all what it has been like.

I am well medicated now. I take my meds every day, I get proper sleep, I see a therapist and a Psychiatrist, I have very little stressors in my life, I go to the gym, I go so far as to not watch alot of drama/cop/CSI type shows, or news to keep myself from the stresses and the imagery. I have been in the hospital 8 times in the past four years.....

I still hallucinate, I still am paranoid, but not nearly as bad as when I am not on meds. I am not the same person I used to be, but I have learned that I still am a good wife and mother, friend....

I have coping techniques, like listening to my MP3 player wherever I go, for instance.....

I am learning to live again, slowly, and I hope that I will not need another med change for a long time to come.

And, no, I am not posessed. Just like a cancer patient isn't posessed niether am I. For some reason, my health insurance doesn't cover exorcisms of schizophrenia due to demonic posession, Go figure.

Heheheh. 

  

Leyna.  You sound cool.  I bet if we got to know each other, we'd be fast friends.   

  

  

"my health insurance doesn't cover exorcisms of schizophrenia due to demonic posession," 

  

You sure? Not even under  the "Archaic and highly suspect torturous treatements" clause? 

 
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