Topic : 12/07 Love Smart, Part 2

 So, I suppose no one has any thoughts on my first post?

I would like to see more help for men who aren't good at dating I agree, but I think one of the reasons that we really haven't seen any examples of men asking for help is generally we are too ashamed to ask.

You can't weed out the "bad boys" from the keepers if you can't find the keepers.  Where do you meet the handsome, successful gentlemen - especially if you're over 50?   Unless you're willing to move, it seems impossible!  And I don't want a man who says "Dr. Phil?  What does he know?".  I want someone who thinks the show is worth watching.  I have dated so many guys who refuse to watch the show.  I'm convinced these men have security issues.  They close the door on even talking about relationships.  I want a man who is willing to talk about the topics that Dr. Phil covers.

Katrina,  how did you ultimately meet your husband?  Was it at the fire station? 

  

Kaayla 

So Katrina, how did you ultimately find your husband?  At the fire station?????  I need all the suggestions I can get!  By the way, I'm an "older" woman - 52 to be exact!  These young girls think they have problems! 

  

Kaayla 

Dr. Phil missed one target-rich environment --- the SHOE SHINE parlour!    Discover it for yourself.  If nothing else, you come away looking great, and can have a great time connecting with others personally or professionally in the 6 or 7 minutes it takes, plus any waiting time.  Check out the line-ups, and jump in.  LADIES; we've been missing out for too long!   If your check list includes that he or she be well-groomed, the shoes say it all.  If they are clean and polished, chances are so too are other areas of our lives.  It won't hurt your career either.  I was once told that "like Palm Pilots and cell phones, clean shoes are a Power Accessory". 

  

  

I also noticed, what is so special about these guys? Who says they are "it"? I agree, us guys need all the help we can get. I hope Dr. Phil lets me be on his on-line dating show, wow do I have some stories to share! Some good, some, "my bad", oops! I wish to be reincarnated as a beautiful girl, the world is at your "French-tip fingernails"!!!

Not all cities have this attractive ratio.  Where do you live?  Maybe I should visit!  :-)

I didn't think she was "all that". And when she said she would go out with that creep again, just made me realize how shallow she really is. I mean, come on, had to be 'cause he said he was a Doc. Right?

So I'm wondering, did someone have to move or did you find someone in your home town? 

  

Kaayla 

OK so seen the show but the places you give for meeting men is set for a bigger city where i live the only places to meet men are the bars and i am really tired of that scene. mainly cause i am tired of dealing with drunks. i am a single mother of 2 kids and really do not want my kids around a drunk. maybe i am looking in the wrong area but there is not a lot of areas to meet them here in the hicks. and the closest big city to me is 2 hours away. so what about the girls in the hicks? do i have to go to a bigger city to find a decent guy or am i just being to picky?