Topic : 12/08 Extreme Follow-up

I don't see how they can forgive their step father for what he did. I have a friend, my best friend actually, she was abused and molested by her real dad, then molested by her stepdad. It is crazy to ask them to forget about it. My friend is in her mid 20's now and still has night mares about it even though she is now married. I wasn't molested by my father but I just recently found out that my husband has been having sex with me in my sleep. I feel betrayed and I can't hardly sleep at night for fear of what might happen if I fall into a deep sleep. I feel violated. 

As far as the anger, Jamey needs to get those children out of there because my husband is exactly like what is described, since we said I do I have been constantly yelled at. The children a yelled at just for screaming since day one of thier births. He tried to shake both of them out of anger for their crying but I intervened, I was thrown into a wall, but I intervened.  

It is pretty sad becuase since I have been watching Dr Phil I could qualify for almost all of his shows. I wish I had someone to help me. 

Watching Michelle is so upsetting!  It made me physically ill!!!!  The fact that she has these beautiful little girls to share her life with and nurture is such a blessing.  However, she has NO CLUE!  She is flat out an abusive, self centered, evil woman.  Jamey, on the other hand does have a clue and should stand up and be a MAN!!!  He knows what is going on and allows it.  At this point, he is no better than she is.  This situation completely sickens me.  Neither one of these selfish people should have the right to mess up these little girls lives any further.  Why these two beautiful little girls haven't been taken away is beyond me.  I have two little girls about the same age and I wouldn't even think of saying anything to them that would damage their self image.  It sickens me that no one has stopped this woman.   At this point Dr. Phil, you have the ability to show these girls that they matter with some action.  Please don't let another day go by before you step in.  Send these girls a direct message that they do matter and that people care.  I know that there are so many people out there who would love the opportunity to raise these girls.   

Its not something that is sooo easily you can just automatically turn off and it goes away. 

I have the similar.  I love my kids and I wasnt always like this.  Sure Ive had issues but that isnt the stem of the problem.  I have anger, and its not controllable totally.  Since my upbringing was good morals and religion was a big part of my life I have been able to control not going TOO far.  But I have been boarderlined!!   There are many women out there with different symptoms.. and I am DEFINATELY not makeing excuses for being like this!!! 

Well I tried to get help.. I have some chin hair and other symptoms of my hormones being off... so I thought Id check into that... well lthey put me on Progesterone... which has worked really well BUT.. after a few months I slowly start going back... so they increase the levels I take and again same thing... so theyhad me take a salava test... well it showed my progesterone was fine and estrogen... BUT my Testosterone was HIGH...almost doubled!!   

Did you know majority of women in Prison their testosterone levels are high??  Theres been alot of research and things you can find online for high estrogen domiance which has similar symptoms but not much on high testosterone... only thing I found on that is stuff to take to raise it for men and women.  No wonder why crime is going up... people are on this hormone that they can get online and alot of people do it to try and build more muscle mass etc... but too much can be soo dangerous. 

I emailed Robin a few days ago before this actually aired and said something like I relate... but a some of these women have hormone problems if not other type of problems that are similar that cause this and its sooooo hard to control.  So easy to get out of control and it has nothing to do with past etc... the only thing you can do without supplements is try and control it... I could wait and count to even a 100 and would still be steaming mad about something... I could wait for a whole day and still be... it doesnt just go away the things that get that going.. 

I feel like Dr Jeckle and Mr Hyde only when I am Mr Hyde... you can still feel Dr Jeckle TOTALLY!!! 

I hope Michelle reads this message as she knows she is NOT alone... its hard.. 

I just found out these results and they got me on some supplements... I have an appointment with Dr mid january as they need to check for cyst on ovaries as that causes high testosterone as well which gives you hair growth,  hair loss, a tummy, aggressive behavior, competitiveness,   

anyways... it seems to have gotten a little more harder to contol in last day... so of course I am calling the doctor and finding out what else I can do... I am not really overweight as I am losing a little I am only 141lbs... also... low fat diets and high protien diets help as well lower it which I am on that. 

Some women do not realize what is going on and I sure hope this information is getting out because so many things can make you a certain way and you dont know about them.. 

Women Hormones are something that is starting to become very popular.. as people are finding out your hormones out of whack can really make you irritable!!!... keep a check on it from time to time check it out!!!  I am also going to find out those other test dr phil had that lady took, as I only doing what dr is having me do... might mention these as well as I do NOT want to go over the edge..   

YOU just got to realize is not something you can just shut off!!  I also believe Ive been this way since a teenager... somethign is off in me... I used to have a temper as a teen a few times a month.. and like now it wasnt easily controllable... I started smoking cigs and I calmed down a little but it still burned in me... But it helped... all this has came back since I quit smoking.    THey say smoking lowers testosterone as well.... dont know if that has anything do to with it or not... But trying to do research on this as I know I need help and I am doing everything I possibly can to fix this.   

I dont think people should criticize others when it is chemically hormonally imbalance that you have no idea of what it intails and what its all about.  Until you been in our shoes dont judge.  Thats Gods job.  I know I am doing the best I can and I know that woman had no idea what she was doing until she saw herself on film doing it.  If you really look at yourself, sometimes you really dont know what you are doing until someone shows you or tells you.  As somethings just end up as habit and you just think its the way you are and its okay. 

I am new to the board but have been lurking around for quite some time.  I know you said - I wish I had someone to help me.  How old are your children now?  It concerns me that he tried to shake the children and that you were thrown into a wall. 

Do you have a job outside the home?   

Lisa