Topic : 06/07 Moms' Biggest Mistakes

I know exactly why men cheat.  I guarantee NO MAN wants to come home to someone who does not shower or take care of herself.  You CAN look (and smell) nice while wearing sweats or "Mommy Pants"  I have plenty of friends who wear Mommy Clothes but they also comb their hair, etc.  That was what I meant.  I'm talking about the moms who don't shower, wear stained clothing, don't comb their hair.  It takes 5 minutes to freshen up before hubby gets home.  There are, unfortunately, ALOT of women who are C. willing to put up with a man's lack of integrity.

it just goes to show that some women out in the richest country don't take pride in being clean on a daily basis.  It makes me sick when I go to the store, church, movies etc and see young ladies dressed in thier PJ's and fuzzy slippers and have not showered is this what you mothers are now teaching your kids? what about self repect. You have no right being a parent!   My mother and father raised 12 kids thats right 12 kids and every day my mother took a shower and had on clean ironed cloths as well did her kids.   A proud mother is a mother that showers and put on clean cloths everyday. We do not live in a 3rd world county.  We live in AMERICA.  SHOWER show your kids you have self respect.  Oh and for those mothers that don't shower, when your kids don't want to take a bath look at your self in the mirror don't get mad at your kids you taught them that its ok not to be clean!!!!!

I'M A SINGEL MOM AND MY SON IS GREAT ABOUT GETTING  THINGS FOR CHRISTMAS . HE KNOW I WORK HARD  AND WHEN THINGS R HARD HE DOESN'T ASK FOR ALOT .. HE THE BEST  SON  GOD COULD OF GIVE ME .. I WORK NIGHTS AND I KNOW I CAN TRUST HE  ... HE IS 12 YEARS OLD ... AND UNDERSTANDS THAT MONEY IS NOT EASY , I HAVE TO WORK HARD FOR ..  NARDA BERDUGO SINGLE IN PASADENA  CAL.

I have no idea when to start on this letter.  Just because someone is wearing pajamas doesnt mean they are dirty.  Get a grip on yourself.  If my husband wants to see someone wearing makeup every day then great....he knows where my make up is...he can go ahead.  Your mother AND father raised 12 kids probably when bread was 25 cents a loaf.  What shows my kids that I have self respect is to conduct myself with integraty and caring.  That is self respect.   Not to mention that if you talk to a dermatologist they will tell you that showering everyday is not neccessarily that good for your skin.   

  

Good for you if your only problem in the day is what shoes to wear.  As far as telling people they have no right to be a parent....you have no right to make that distinction.  Maybe you need to just stay in the kitchen and bake a cake or something and let people who have an understanding of others deal with the real issues of the world. 

  

I was a single mom for many years and I know the struggle.  You don't have to give them everything they want.  Besides if you do whats for them to wish for later.  Don't beat yourself up over it.  I still don't give my kids everything they want because they need to learn respect, caring and earning.  Because regardless of your lot in life you can't always get what you want.... 

I have a problem ,I dont agree on the way my husband punishes our 17 month old daughter. I think he is to harsh. I tell him how i feel and he says well look at how she listens to me rather then you (She doesnt reallt listen to me very well) I an calm and nice and say things like "please stop dong that" or "thats not very nice of you to do tht" 

he says "ISABELLE WHAT DID I SAY I SAID NO. STOP DOING THAT NOW" or if she is in his way he will say"GET" R we just the opposite? an i too nice and he is too harsh? what can i do. 

I dont want my dauhter to be afraid of her dad. He really is a good caring dad. and he doesnt do this often only when she is misbehaving. 

PLEASE HELP 

i think i may be one of those mommy who maybe doesnt get to wash her hair every day i have a baby to look after. My husband would never ever cheat on me because he loves me not because i look good!!!!

  I am a stay at home MOTHER of ten children and love it. Miss Mother Teresa was a nun..... the MOTHER that got this post going most likely does take showers etc. ...but like HUMAN Mothers that we are use make-up....get dressed up when the time is right. Whats good for you and your family great everyone lives and runs their household differently. I choose not to get all fixed up dailey. It just doesn't make since. To each his own!!!!!!! Believe with 10 kids if I want to look HOT for my hubby I can. My husband loves me unconditional..........as for wondering eyes because someone else out there WEARS makeup and dresses up everyday.......doesn't seem to get my hubbys attention he knows the grass isn't greener on the other side.......(that grass needs to be cut too)He calls me a easy keeper....I'm thrilled that my husband thinks he's lucky not to be married to a PREMADONNA (spel/) that spends his money as fast as he makes it and their life evolves around ME ME ME. It's a no brainer........glamour or life at home taking care of the familyyyy, PRICELESS! I'm content in always being home taking care of the wonderful family GOD has given me......you can't get any better than that! 

Painful heels verses tennies or flipflop (No brainer)lol 

Pantie hoses (makes me shiver!) lol 

Comfortable jeans ahhhhhhhh! 

One in awhile Mommy time..........PRICELESS! That was makes a good Mommy. 

At the end do what you floats your boat no need to judge and nic pic someones words that was just sharing her two cents after watching The Dr. Phil Show. 

Happy Holidays!!!!!! Smelly & roughlooking PROUD Mother of 10 and thankful wife to my PRECIOUS hubby, Ray.        Cathe'<>< 

So do something grreat for him it doesnt have to cost mony take him out adn tell him how much you do appreciate how great of a son he reaaly is. There are many things tou can to that is free or cheep. look on the internet for free activities in your home town there are many more then you may think

You both have a point, but i hope that you mommy at least get the time to shower and get dreesed eaxh day. i Onlt have one child and a house to keep abd there are days my husband gets home and im still in my pj.s with a bottle of widex in my hand.lol 

Good for you and raising 10 childern. holey sh**! 

You are taking a beating over your comments but I am on your side.  These women didn't look like dogs when their husbands, were their boyfriends.  Having a baby doesn't give anyone a reason to be a slob.  My Mom raised three little ones, and she worked full time because it was a necessity. Yet she made time to look nice.  She was beautiful then and she is beautiful now.  There are exceptions to every rule, but I think the angry mom's bashing you are just too lazy or clueless to care.