Topic : 06/26 Twisted Love

Dr. Phil, Thanks so much for telling Charles exactly what moral character he is showing, He wants to move out to see if he will miss his kids? For love's sake this man is a jerk and I hope his wife realizes that she has value- deserves better- will find better and DUMPS HIM NOW. Quit letting him call the shots and do not walk but run to the nearest, best attorney and teach him that he cannot walk away from his responsibilities without consequences.  He is so in love with himseld and I doubt he can love anyone else. Take the house, the kids, any assets and 3/4 of his salary. You deserve it. Tell the Other Woman not to give you a load of crap about not breaking up a marriage. SHE MAD A CHOICE!! I have been there and you will hopefully see that she did you the best favor anyone could have done you and that you would not take him back on a gold platter.....LOVE YOURSELF and your kids and kick his ass to the curb. Forgive any typos- I am so mad- my husband came in after hearing me yelling at the TV and said he knew what he would be facing if he ever got close to being Charles. 

Aloha, 

Carol 

I was watching the Dr Phil Show today about Charles wants to explore polyfidelity after a 19 year marriage.  Well I am talking from a man's point of view.  Alot of women today does cause their men to cheat on them.  After years of marriage some women does feel comfortable in the marriage and forget about their husbands needs in the bedroom.   90% of the time when their husbands want to make love to them it's either they had a hard day at work, or they too tired to satisfy their husband's needs.  When a man and a woman make that commitment to each other the woman and the man should give themselves to each other wholeheartedly.     

My mother-in-law made a very point to me.  She said for a man and a woman to have a happy marriage they have to enjoy themselves in the bedroom.  I cannot say I blame Charles one bit but on the other hand I don't know what's going on in their bedroom.  Once the bedroom get boring and lost the spark 90% of the men out there will look for something on the side.  Let's not fool ourselves lots of men do have women on the side especially with the way the internet is today.   Most times their wives never find out. 

A man having another woman on the side sometimes is a wakeup call for his wife.   Some women when they find out about their husband's other woman they usually change their ways and be more supportive in the bedroom.  Some men are born womanizers but as I said alot of the married women cause that on themselves by not giving their husband enough  attention in the bedroom. 

Well I expect to get some harsh remarks about my message but that's the way I feel in a man's point of view. 

Wow girl I think you ought to find some self respect!  I don't care if she is 250 pounds - what if she was in a wheel chair or anything else.  He should be loving her and helping her with her weight issues, not off messing around with you!  Did you ever think that her issues are directly linked to the fact that he is having an affair with you, or how he might treat her? 

I am sure that it is possible to find a man for yourself that is not attached and free to have any kind of relationship that you are looking for and you do not need to be doing this with a married man. 

WOMEN WE SHOULD BE SUPPORTIVE AND HAVE SOME LEVEL OF FIDELITY TO EACH OTHER.  WE HAVE A HARD ENOUGH ROAD TO TRAVEL WITHOUT TRIPPING EACH OTHER ALONG THE WAY! 

I forced it out of my husband - he was too chicken to tell me and I figured it out. 

I have warned friends of mine to not ever let me catch them up to something when I thought that they might be or saw something that I didn't like.  Many will say - none of your business.  I disagree with this.  We have too many things that go on in our society because staying quiet is a form of acceptance or approval.  We need to go back to the good ole days in some areas of life and be willing to tell other people's children to behave when their parents aren't around and we need to look people in the face and say this is unacceptable behavior. 

             I was fuming during the show today!  That guy was the most arrogant man I that I have ever seen.  I kept telling my husband that Dr. Phil was going to move in for the kill and he didn't disappoint.  That women needs to get rid of him.  The sad part is that this conceited, arrogant man is also going to lose his children's respect.  I know it will be hard for her but if she runs replays of the show several times that ought to open her eyes!!!!!!