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frustrated
September 13, 2005, 11:49 am PDT

Tammy

I read the emails about Def Leopard, and I saw a documentary on television about this story. It was truly inspirational. He is a fantastic drummer and he defeated the odds. That’s what it’s all about! 

  

I guess it’s a little hard for me to swallow, after being nick-named Don Brewer after all these years, to be limited in my abilities. I know and accept that these things happen. Have you ever heard Grand Funk’s song called TNUC? It has an awesome drum solo that I could almost exact a few years ago. But with my neck injury, the meds also causing poor coordination, and other apparent neurological issues, I have been down-graded by my own son to second best.  

  

This hurt my feelings at first. He went to listen to a band practice that my nephew was in, and the drummer he said was awesome, the best he had ever heard. Until that day, he had always told me that I was the best. I do give him credit for his honestly, and never even hinted that it hurt my feelings. I just tried harder, but under the conditions, no-can-do. Maybe eventually I will make that drum set roar like a train rolling down the tracks like I used to, like Don Brewer did. 

Anyway, I always felt this was my only “true” talent. And I was losing it fast. But I had a good day last week and everything went together well. No one heard it of course. Maybe it will happen again. 

  

One thing my son has always told me is that he would never have another drummer in his band, once he got one started, other than me. I know this is not reality. But it’s nice of him to say that. 

  

I have talked with him about my depression a lot. He is very outgoing and personable. He works in a customer service atmosphere at a retail store with my wife and daughter, and my wife says that he is great with customers, and girls are always hanging out watching him and he doesn’t even realize it. 

I will get back. And if I don’t, my son will carry on the legacy, a long family history of musicians going back many generations. 

Thanks for the info. 

  

God Bless. 

  

And GOD bless the Hurricane Victims. 

 

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September 13, 2005, 2:04 pm PDT

Don't be fooled

Quote From: tammyo1973

Hello, and happy belated birthday. 

  

Thank you for sharing your drumming story. I was unaware of your neck injury.  I think now I do remember you posting about it, but never talking directly to you before last week and with everyone that posts on here it can be hard to remember. 

  

I have seen Tai Chi. THey used to do that in another room at the place my daughter and I took our self defense class. IT is awesome to watch, but I never saw them use swords.  

  

You sound very talented to me.  

  

I watched the special yesterday as well and I too was entranced by the police officers they interviewed. It reminded me of my daughter and myself. Keeping in emotions like that is like pouring salt on a wound.  

  

Well I am so happy for you right now. You seem to be doing better than last week. Thank you thank you!! 

  

Tammy 

I have been in and out of martial arts classes for many years, but have never officially taken Tai Chi.  I have seen some videos, and intend to read some books, and more videos if I can find them.  

  

I just have a passion for the martial arts.  I did mention that I took some KARATE from a Japaneese exchange student years ago?  

  

But I am no expert in my opionion.  Others have a higher opinion of me than myself.  I have had to defend myself in a couple of instances in my adulthood, and did ok. 

  

To me; women and children need self defense.  It not only teaches you physical tactics and techniques, and I'm sure you know this from your experiences; but it teaches "DISCIPLINE".   

  

It teaches you to AVOID conflict if at all possible. 

  

It teaches you self worth and the importance of dedication and taking care of your body, mind and spirit.  I have been in dojo's in old abandoned houses that were not livable, and only a handful of students.  This was a very good experience for me.  It taught me the importance of focusing on self and discipline, and not a fancy environment.  Old hard wooden floors, tough on the feet. 

  

I was in another class where as a yellow belt, I took down black belts.  Not bragging, but the chain of the belts have been defiled in my opinion.  It is to me almost sacred to receive a black belt. I feel the American Tae Kwon Doe Association should not allow a ten year old to achieve a black belt. I feel it takes from childhood to manhood to achieve such an honor.   

  

But the most inportant thing is that one becomes overly confident when the colors of the belts get darker.  That's why I was able to take down one of the best black belts in a more sophisticated dojo a few years ago.  He was over confident that I had on a yellow belt.  And my belt still remains yellow to this day.   

  

But you know the story behind the Black Belt.  It would take warriors many years of fighting to stain and soil their belts to become black. That's why I kept the same belt for many years, and had to insist on wearing it in some classes based on the the old tradions.  

  

I didn't mean to get carried away. 

  

By the way. DId Lillian get her info on meditation?  DOES ANYBODY KNOW? 

  

  

 

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September 13, 2005, 2:10 pm PDT

To All Concerned Posters

If I have missed any posts, I am very sorry.  I have been very ill the past few days.  I am signing off for now and I am not sure when I will be back.   

  

You know how hard it is to keep up with all that's going on in here. 

  

And Dr Phil.  That was a tremendous undertaking for you to go into the midst of the "war zone" to help these people.  May GOD bless and protect you as you continue your journey ahead. 

  

I told my wife last night, even though I get very emotional, If I was not in my current health perdicument, and could afford to , I would go there and help. 

  

GOD BLESS ALL. 

  

And thank GOD for you people, and for my wonderful family. 

 

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September 13, 2005, 7:30 pm PDT

I did it again

Quote From: labelfree

I know what its like it can be over whelming going back etc..Hope you find you way back again...I always have a hard time with goodbyes  lets say until we meet again sometime.....Yes Our Dr. Phil is Quite special and I do believe this world is just now catching a glimpse how spectacular he really is....He is just not fluff and puff he is the real deal and HUSBANDS all across this country are starting to actually stir up because we the wives are listening to this fantastic GURU of the mind..THIS INTERNATIONAL ICON  that saved my life yes I will say that board and if you haven't read his books you must because then you will really really get him and his true voice...he is not like an ALIEN and yes I WILL SAY IT BECAUSE I PERSONALLY MET THIS OTHER DOCTOR DR> GARY BERN'S WHO WROTE  SATISFACTION  WHICH I DID JUST BUY   BIG SNOOZE FEST FOLKS  TRUST ME....and I met the guy in person! 

  

HE IS as exciting as a cold cup of coffee without the sugar and you know how bad we all need that sugar.....NOW I NEVER MET Dr. PHIL but HIS BOOKS are FILLED with LIFE IMAGERY And reached me at my LOWEST MOMENT  a moment in my life when I was decided to be INVISIBLE BY STARVING MYSELF OR MAGNIFICENT  after reading DR.PHIL I decided to be MAGNIFICENT AND I QUIT SMOKING ciggies too....JUNE 1.  05   

  

BUY Dr. Phil's BOOK  REJECT DULL Dr. Gary Bern's Satisfaction Book because-that book will give you nothing but hives  I would suggest take that money and donate to the red-cross and buy Dr. Phil's book or hang out here because Dr/PhD Bern's is a Real Condescending jerk who thought that :nobody he was speaking to could possibly grasp his concepts and did you ever meet someone who spoke at you instead of to you and he was like such a yuckier oh my gosh YOUR gonna be on a national TV show you have NO PEOPLE skills and your VOID of any charisma YUK you non human  sorry this is only MY opinion and does not reflect The Dr. Phil website in anyway shape or form...But I had to take like 4 showers and a hot steamy bath for 2 hours after meeting that sub human  two weeks ago...xoxoxo 

  

Sorry ya all you know I never ever talk about anyone like this after 4 months of knowing me but this guy was not real....he was skin and teeth just pretending.... 

I typed for about 20 minutes or so, and when I posted, it had logged me out.  THis is so frustrating.  I should have known better.   

  

I will try to reconstruct my letter and post again. 

  

SORRY 

 

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September 13, 2005, 8:17 pm PDT

I never noticed

Quote From: yesyoucan

That is like a cardinal sin they say as far as making and keeping friends... I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

If that happens you lose post again djmatt. After you log back in do two quick back pages and most times your post is still there and just click post. IF you think you have taken to long just highlight and copy then if you have to log back on and you back page twice and gone you still have it. I know...I forget to copy before I click post too sometimes. I used to not worry about it and just back page after I logged in but sometimes eats post which, as you and other say and I say, IS EVERY FRUSTRATING... Hugs and prayers, SEA

The D is my first initial, the J is my wife's first initial, and Matt is part of our last name.  

I never noticed you spelled it wrong,  djmatt??? 

  

Don't worrr, if you did. 

  

  

 

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September 13, 2005, 8:24 pm PDT

A time and a season...

Quote From: labelfree

I know what its like it can be over whelming going back etc..Hope you find you way back again...I always have a hard time with goodbyes  lets say until we meet again sometime.....Yes Our Dr. Phil is Quite special and I do believe this world is just now catching a glimpse how spectacular he really is....He is just not fluff and puff he is the real deal and HUSBANDS all across this country are starting to actually stir up because we the wives are listening to this fantastic GURU of the mind..THIS INTERNATIONAL ICON  that saved my life yes I will say that board and if you haven't read his books you must because then you will really really get him and his true voice...he is not like an ALIEN and yes I WILL SAY IT BECAUSE I PERSONALLY MET THIS OTHER DOCTOR DR> GARY BERN'S WHO WROTE  SATISFACTION  WHICH I DID JUST BUY   BIG SNOOZE FEST FOLKS  TRUST ME....and I met the guy in person! 

  

HE IS as exciting as a cold cup of coffee without the sugar and you know how bad we all need that sugar.....NOW I NEVER MET Dr. PHIL but HIS BOOKS are FILLED with LIFE IMAGERY And reached me at my LOWEST MOMENT  a moment in my life when I was decided to be INVISIBLE BY STARVING MYSELF OR MAGNIFICENT  after reading DR.PHIL I decided to be MAGNIFICENT AND I QUIT SMOKING ciggies too....JUNE 1.  05   

  

BUY Dr. Phil's BOOK  REJECT DULL Dr. Gary Bern's Satisfaction Book because-that book will give you nothing but hives  I would suggest take that money and donate to the red-cross and buy Dr. Phil's book or hang out here because Dr/PhD Bern's is a Real Condescending jerk who thought that :nobody he was speaking to could possibly grasp his concepts and did you ever meet someone who spoke at you instead of to you and he was like such a yuckier oh my gosh YOUR gonna be on a national TV show you have NO PEOPLE skills and your VOID of any charisma YUK you non human  sorry this is only MY opinion and does not reflect The Dr. Phil website in anyway shape or form...But I had to take like 4 showers and a hot steamy bath for 2 hours after meeting that sub human  two weeks ago...xoxoxo 

  

Sorry ya all you know I never ever talk about anyone like this after 4 months of knowing me but this guy was not real....he was skin and teeth just pretending.... 

From the King James Version of the Bible. Ecclesiastes 3.1 

  

1] To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
[2] A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
[3] A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
[4] A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
[5] A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
[6] A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
[7] A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
[8] A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace. 

] To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:[] A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;[] A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;[] A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;[] A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;[] A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;[] A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;[] A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.


 

It is human nature to have harsh or uneasy feelings about someone, especially someone who is obviously pretentious in nature. The essence of our beings and existences are bases on weeding out the ones we feel we can and cannot trust. I sincerely believe that someone who is so pretentious and on a path to prima donna lacks personal self worth. I feel that dictators and such are uplifted by power because there is a void, something lacking and they are trying to fill that void with power. If everyone bows down to them, it lifts their self esteem. Something that can’t seem to conjure up from within themselves. 

 

About the show, I would stand next to the police chief who cried on the show and give him a hug, and cry with him. I am a white boy from Georgia, and I learned a long time ago that color doesn’t matter. I praise and admire the black civil rights leaders we have had, and have in our country today. It saddens me that I have been in churches that did not agree with the idea of different races worshiping together. 

  

When I was in a gospel band many years ago with my brothers, we accepted invitations to play at churches regardless of the color the preachers or the congregations skin. I would love to tell this man that I love him and his family and that I CRIED for him, when he cried.  

  

Dr. Phil, can you tell him that. Tell him a white boy from Georgia felt his pain, and cried, almost uncontrollably, and I wish I could shake his hand and let the world see that I love this man and his family. I would love to give him a hug and tell him that we care. The world is getting better, people are coming together. And he is well respected and a hero in my eyes. All of the best of the police force, the fire fighters, the rescue workers, and anyone who has pitched in just a little are all heros. 

It is time that we REALLY come together as a nation and help, and fight child abuse, and show our feelings for one another. I want all of the black community, the Hispanic, Asian, the Iraqis, and the rest of the world that I love them all the same, no matter what God they worship. I really believe that we all worship the same GOD, but he has just manifested himself to different cultures in different forms so that each culture can relate to and understand him. 

  

I don’t believe that GOD, whoever you are, and whatever you may call him, intended on us to fight and kill. I would bet that the vast majority of the people of the world would feel the same way. 

After WWII, you see the documentaries of the Japanese, and the American veterans hugging each other and crying. These men in their older age realize the war was senseless, just as wars today. Countries cannot continue to allow dictators to take over, that’s when the trouble begins. How can one man make all of the decisions for all of the people of one nation? 

Why can we not form a union of hope and freedom among all nations, religions, races and financial statuses that allows us ALL TO OPEN UP and tell how we feel? 

  

I don’t want these young men in the talaban and other terrorists organizations to lose their lives because they believe they are fighting a holy war. I believe we could all be friends and we could worship together and have an understanding if we all just had a chance. 

  

In WWII, Germany had 14 year old kids fighting against grown men. How selfish was that? What can we do? What can I say? How can we end this madness and all become good neighbors and allies. 

Imagine uniting the extreme talents of these young men who are dying everyday in Afganastan and Iraq and imagine if we put those talents to use, along with talents with others all over the world, from China, Japan, Europe, Korea, and so on, and put forth all of the money and talents and intelligence to fight AIDS, Cancer, the problems with the O zone, global warming, energy resources, CHILD ABUSE PREVENTION, etc. Imagine all of the great minds that are being wasted to learn warfare and hatred and anger, when those talents could bring peace and tranquility to our world. 

What would it be like? 

  

About the books, I am not a very good reader, though I am going to try to commit to trying to read "Self Matter" .  And the Chuck Norris Book that was mentioned.  I struggle with reading comprehension. 
 

 

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September 13, 2005, 8:24 pm PDT

I understand

Quote From: yesyoucan

That is like a cardinal sin they say as far as making and keeping friends... I hope I didn't hurt your feelings.

If that happens you lose post again djmatt. After you log back in do two quick back pages and most times your post is still there and just click post. IF you think you have taken to long just highlight and copy then if you have to log back on and you back page twice and gone you still have it. I know...I forget to copy before I click post too sometimes. I used to not worry about it and just back page after I logged in but sometimes eats post which, as you and other say and I say, IS EVERY FRUSTRATING... Hugs and prayers, SEA

I see what you mean,  I have been on the word processor,  HEY, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, 

  

FRIENDS.... 

  

djmatt 

 

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September 13, 2005, 8:33 pm PDT

We are one, until death do us part

Quote From: yesyoucan

I am making lots of typos tonight. My last post before this post, September 13, 2005, 8:17 pm PDT, I copied too much and says, "Whoever wants to join me can via the links above and on powerful, prayerful DAILY walks to happiness." However,that was when different links were above which didn't include the first link, palace.net, from a post I made on September 7th, 05. If you didn't see that post this won't make sense.

I called you Glenn in error on my first post to you so I did a duplicate post. How are you doing tonight dmatt. Hugs and prayers, SEA

SHe is so much a part of my life, we are one in spirit,  I believe this.  I don't know if she even realizes how much I talk about her on here.   

  

SHe is having to work a lot of extra hours to make ends meet because of my disabilities. Although I am trying my best to do little things while recovering from my neck surgery.  I have been out of work almost six months, this hurts.  Especially when I am too giving to my kids, and do without because of it. 

  

I have almost allowed this and other things to get us in terrible financial trouble.  I don't know how we are going to pay our bills in the months ahead.  We have had just so many unfortunate circumstnaces.  We lost a home, no fault of our own several years ago, and all of my savings, nothing that could have been avoided. 

  

We started over three years ago with nothing, zero after being married almost 23 years at the time, we had lost everything and started over on more than one occasion. 

  

What a wonderful woman to stick by me thru sickness and in health! 

  

 

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September 13, 2005, 8:42 pm PDT

GREAT, THANKS

Quote From: yesyoucan

Most of the below links don't take long to read. First two are the best and five factors of a phenomenal family. Others are just spares from my post on September 7, 2005. I hope you have pleasant dreams and blessed tomorrows djmatt. Oh, by the way, please pray my typing gets so good I have zero errors. Not so much for me but so that people don't misunderstand me. I had carbon monoxide poisoning due to faulty heater and my sentence structure sometimes leads to misunderstandings. Even had to relearn to type and retake Algebra in college and it takes intense concentration to keep my grammar and sentence structure straight and has been in a twist every since.

TEN LIFE LAWS: drphil.com/articles/article/44

SELF MATTERS (AUTHENTIC SELF): www.drphil.com/articles/article/73

RELATIONSHIP RESCUE (IT STARTS WITH YOU): drphil.com/articles/article/368

UWLC SEVEN KEYS: drphil.com/articles/article/472

ULTIMATE WEIGHT LOSS CHALLENGE RECIPES: drphil.com/shows/show/337

ANTI-BULLY PLEDGES FOR SCHOOLS: drphil.com/shows/show/115

FAMILY FIRST (FIVE FACTORS FOR A PHENOMENAL FAMILY): drphil.com/articles/article/195


Be Blessed, SEA
This will be a tremendous help!
 

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September 13, 2005, 8:42 pm PDT

I must go for now

Good night all.  I will keep up the fights. 

  

AND AGAIN, IF I HAVE MISSED YOUR POST, PLEASE BRING IT TO MY ATTENTION. 

  

HOW IS CATHY AND HER DAUGHTER? 

  

  

 

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