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August 17, 2006, 1:40 pm PDT
I agree
Quote From: moteasuhI watch the Dr Phil show every day; the message always seems to be directed toward the husband being more understanding of the wife's needs. I have heard Dr Phil say that a woman should be able to stand in a room of a thousand wives, and know that she is treated better by her husband than any wife in the room. Being a wife myself, I take issue with that statement. What about the husband? He should be able to stand in a room full of men and know that his wife meets his needs better than any wife of any husband in that room. I know that I treat my husband better than most men he knows. They tell him how envious they are of him. I meet all his sexual, emotional, and physical needs. He is happy at home with me; he does not need to go outside the marriage to have his needs met. We do not arugue over any subject. We have been married for 11 years. Wives, stop acting like a spoiled baby; put on your big girl panties and be the wife your husband needs and wants. You will be surprised the difference this will make in your marriage. I feel the same way you do. I wait on my husband hand and foot when he is home. Granted, he is a truck driver, only home on the weekends....but when he is home, he doesn't have to really do much. I cook and clean for him, and the kids. I even bring his plate out for him, and clean up after him, just like I do the kids. It doesn't bother me, because he always says thank you...and once in awhile he will do it for me. I just figure, he works hard providing for our family so that I can stay home and raise our 3 daughters. So what if I am his maid and cook, among other things. He deserves it! Plus, it gives us something to joke about....that he is getting ripped off, lol.
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