Messages By: jeichor1

My neighbors for over 15 years have a son who was ejected from Middle School to Alternative School for a sexually offensive act.  I did not know this when the neighbor knocked asking me if I knew (not his name) Mike--"Of course--he is such a sweet boy (was 13).  She--the neighbor then stated I would receive mail that indicated ' Mike 'had had an inappropriate interaction with another child.  I checked my mail--I received two letters.  (I am a widow who has kept my late husband's name as in Jack and Jan)  I read one letter.  It stated that if the police did not take care of the problem, they would find a way to take care of the problem.

 

A few months later, the neighbor's dogs were poisioned--one by one.  It was horrid.  When I talked with "sally"-she had no idea who had done this.  I have found out from the Police it was rat poison.

 

This happened three times until all dogs were dead. 

 

I believe Sally never told her husband that Mike had a problem.  They accuse me of poisioning their dogs--it makes me angry--I no longer want to see them--and wish they would move--to the end of the earth.

 

It is perferctly apparent that the family of the molested did this, the lie that Sally told by ommission--decided what would happen--she was warned--all of the neighbors were told.  And their family is the only family with dead animals.

 

They decided that the 65 year old widow that lives next door, is smaller than the fence, and had to go out in the dark of night (guess I had to carry the rat poison in my mouth since I had to climb a tree) and throw something over a fence, over a pool, and over another 4 ft fence plus all their shrubs to get to the area where the dogs were kept.

 

I am still in rightious indignation over this--need a Dr Phil moment.

 

They proceeded to do things such as turn me in to the Community Association as having "bricks" stored in front of my home--they were pavers at the side of my house--and being nasty at every opportunity.

 

All of this because a wife lied.

All of this because a woman chose her child over truth.

 

Thank you for reading this diatribe.

 

J

I believe that honesty has to be tempered with tact--if someone says to me--"do I look fat"--the answer is "No"--=if soneone asks me if I believe only some are vile--I will say no--every answer has to be as honest as possible without hurt

I would hope I would fight--but am not sure--when I was mugged several years ago--I yelled, I screamed, and (I love men) many men came to help--but now that I am older and a bit more fragile--I would probably use the cell to call 911--as to the money question-have so many times corrected

Frankly I think life is far too short to spend it on "who wins"--revenge, jealousy, and envy are only words that convey--"I want what you have"--how useless

I understand having money not having money--but I always believe that what is yours belongs to you--not to me--I will earn what I will earn. Those who want what I have--how sorry I am for them.

I think everyone has more than hurt Anna Nichole--everyone speculates on something none of us know.  The facts are--her daughter was born, her son died, she died.  I think we ought to examine what makes a celebrity--why we are so fascinated (escapism) and why her funeral was more important than that of my husband of 32 years.  All lives should be celebrated. I wonder why money seems to have such a life of it's own--that it creates many fathers for little Dannylynne (I am her Mother, you know :):)) If I understand it correctly--it is the love of money that is the root of all evil--and what I see is evil--let the dead rest in peace, let Dannielynne live a good life among loving people-let her grow.  If she inherits--fine--college money--if not, the best thing a child can ever have is love--it will teach her how to love, how to care, how to be a human

I think the Mother is right--if there is a right or wrong.  That Grandfather is so wrong and his wife is in such denial--"the devil made me do it".  They should never see that child again unless strong supervision thru the courts are there.  He is disgusting, she is disgusting--these are not Grandparents who take kids to the Circus, to the Movies, who share popcorn.  I can tell you if any of my parent's did to my grown daughter what these did-they would never be in any of our lives again.  It is disgusting that the Grandmother thinks for even a minute that it "should be taken care of in the family".  She is not a Grandmother-she is a zombie who is afraid to be her own person.  Kick that molester to the curb, woman. How does she know her own daughters were not molested by this creep?  Does she have daughters?  Does she care at all?  Her love is so phoney--she wants a relationship with the child he molested?

 

I say--to the family--there are times when you have to kick to the curb those who hurt one you love.

 

It is hard to do--but have done it--survivable

 

I have never been molested, but have so many friends who were date raped, molested, etc--one comes to mind--Martha Scobee--a friend of mine many years ago.  I believe to this day she was molested by her brother-in-law.  I also think he might have thought of molesting me at a
sleep over".

 

I never knew this until the morning--"he touched your boobies"--I still have small boobies--never got the double D I wished for--but then again-they are only mammary glands--and usable at the time they were needed.

I truly believe it will be hard for the Mother to get past the betrayal of a family she "took" as her own when she married.  I also know love has boundries--not rules.  They are different--boundries say-"In no way ever do you touch any member of your family in a sexual way"  Rules are "pick up your clothes".  This Grandpa--what a "Piece of work"--how he so violated this child, how he so influenced the rest of her life!  I think she now knows sex is a pleasure in a way--and may well be on the road to teen age sex.  Let's face it-it is a pleasure-and all of Gracie's life she has to know her Grandfather--a person she trusted--gave her her first sexual pleasure--this is so sick.  Anne should have kicked him to the door--in spite of her long marriage-long does not necessarily mean good.  I am so angry with her.  I have Grands--and would stand in front of a car to save them.  And a Great Grandson--how could anyone give their trust to a molester rather than their special selves.  He says he does not know how to apologize.  Bull-he figured out how to molest his Graddaughter-easily "like giving her candy". A special place in Hell-I hope. No apology is acceptable,

I understand what those brothers have gone thru--my sister stole  not only my inheritance but also the inheritance of her neice-and my children.  I believe these kinds of people are so empowered by their being alive that no one else counts.  I saw this today--He has no care for anyone but himself and self empowers to cheat, steal, and generally make everyone else miserable.  I have not been in contact with my sister since 97--when my husband of 32 years was dying and she expected me to leave him to look after our dying Mother. I think--kick them to the curb. There is a flaw in these people-they have no empathy.  When both my Mother and my husband was were dying--she said "well, she never loved him, anyway"

I think this family has many more problems than show on the surface--a daughter who feels disenfranchised, and others who make her feel that way.  I think the father loves the mother, and Carries efforts "You could do so much better" are the product of a bitter person-I do think she is a diva who uses everyone--but all are to blame--from those who chose to call her "fat" and make fun of her, to those who hate her whining.  Of course it is all about her--most of us can only see the "me" in the mirror. I feel for the Mother who hates talking to her daughter--no one wants to hear you are totally to blame for an unhappy child.  Carrie is very unhappy.  Maybe-like me-a middle child--Gee--I did not know this until my elder sibling told me "You live my life" "I was the one who should have been successful"

 

I think people are like a spectrum--and everyone has to do their life in the way they see best--me? I chose a college education and a profession--others chose alternatives