I think these women should really reconsider pressuring their husbands into having a baby. I'm adopted due to my adoptive parents couldn't have children. My adoptive Father DID NOT want children at all! My Mother pressured him into it. I grew up with a Dad that was cold and distant during most of my life. He let me know that he didn't want children. You can't guarentee that the husband will magically change once the baby is there. Isn't the most important part the child?
I personally don't want children. I have never had the desire to. I don't think everyone is meant to be a parent. It is a personal decision. I'm in my 40's and I know that I won't change my mind. I hope to be married again one day and I will make sure that my husband doesn't want children either.