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April 27, 2006, 9:52 pm PDT

DeeDee's Drill Instructor

I don't think DD's son should be her "Drill Sergent" with this deal.  If he does, and she fails, he'll become her next spider to blame.   

I grew up with a fat, lazy, manipulative mother too.  She got the bipass surgury and is now thin, lazy, and manipulative.  Not once did this mother apologize to her kids for the abuse she made them suffer.  I hope she has a wake up call about that too. 

 
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June 4, 2006, 10:19 pm PDT

Wow!

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"Proof-texting" is the taking of a phrase, sentence, chapter, etc., of literature out of its original historical context to either support one's view or condemn others. According to the the author of the textbook which I had when I took Biblical Hermeneutics (aka Bible Interpretation), the KJV translators did a dis-service to the Bible by dividing its books up into chapters and verses. Because of that, English speaking readers, especially, take phrases, sentences, verses, and even chapters of the Bible completely out of their original contexts and misuse them. Oh, I took that course when I was a graduate student at Oral Roberts University in the 1970s working on a Master of Arts in Theological and Historical Studies (MATHS) Degree. I attended there for 5 semesters. I was in denial of my sexual orientation then. 

  

The word mistranslated as "prostitute" in the Living Bible is "kodesh" for males and "kodeshah" for females. The word "Kodesh" and its feminine spelling Kodeshah" do not mean prostitute at all.  

  

When Deuteronomy was written, there were no vowel points in the Hebrew text at all. Those were added by a group of Jews a long time after the birth of Jesus. When referring to a person, "kodesh" refers to anyone serving a god, either a pagan god or YHWH, aka Yahweh or Jehovah. What the author of Deuteronomy was referring to is that none of the Children of Israel should be serving the Canaanite gods as holy persons.  

  

In regard to what is in 1 Corinthians 6:9-13, and the word translated as "male prostitutes," which is "malakoi," that word means "soft" and Jesus used the very same word when referring to the kind of clothing which John the Baptist did not wear.  

  

And that other word, arsenokoitai, mistranslated as "homosexual offenders," was NEVER used by any other of the Bible's authors other than the Apostle Paul.  . . . AND according to experts in historical documents  and other Greek writings, NOBODY, and I mean Nobody! used the word except Paul himself.  

  

Do not call the same-gender sexual activity in Leviticus 18:22  and Leviticus 20:13 homosexual acts. Oh, it's true that both of the persons involved are male adults; but, the actual sex act is not done by homosexuals at all! One of the was a Kodesh, a male holy person, and the other a married-to-a-woman heterosexual man who went to make a ritual sacrfice to the Canaanite fertility gods. And as i stated before, that "kodesh" would put on women's clothing pretending to be Asherah, the Canaanite fertility goddess. In the mind of the heterosexual man from the community, he was not having sexual activity with a male person at all, he was having sex with a woman, the goddess herself! 

  

It is interesting that people read the Bible without even doing any personal research into the very culture or cultures the Bible's Books' authors were discussing. If you, referring to the author of the person I quoted in this disucssion, don't know anything about the customs of the Canaanites and the Romans and their worship of false gods, you won't even understand what the authors of Leviticus, Romans, I & II Corinthians, and I & II Timothy are talking about in regard to pagan religions. 

  

In fact, Chapters 18, 19, AND 20 of Leviticus should be read as one complete context. The opening verses of Chapter 18 are repeated/summed up in the closing verses of Chapter 20.  

  

Oh, the original Living Bible was an English PARAPHRASE, not a translation, of the King James Version of the Bible. Mr. Taylor did not use the Hebrew nor Greek Texts to do that paraphrase. He made lots of mistakes in doing so.  

  

Literally here is what Leviticus 18:22 states when properly translated from the Hebrew: "And you (male) shall not lay  as one lays with a woman; that is "to'ebah" (a taboo in Hebrew culture/religion).  

  

Literally in translation, Leviticus 20:13 states: And a man who lies (or lays) with a male as one lies with a woman, both of them have done a "to'ebah." "To'ebah" is translated as "abomination" and "detestable" in various English versions of the Bible. If one eats shrimp, lobster, or even catfish, according to what is in the books of Moses, one has done a "to'ebah." If one eats meat with cheese on it, one has done a "toebah." It was to'ebah to eat pork. So a bacon cheeseburger is a doubled to'ebah!" Modern Bible-thumping "Christians commit what the OT writers called "to'ebah" almost every day of their adult lives.  

  

Real men who are exclusively homosexual in their sexual orientation and are comfortable with that, i.e. gay, do not pretend that one of them is female in same-gender sexual activity as in the Leviticus' explanation. 

I was very impressed with your knowledge.  I too was asking myself about these "quotes" from the bible.  It is amazing how ignorance can spread such hatred.  I believe in my heart that people who hate gay people (or the supposed "sin" of gay love) are frightened and insecure.  If there is indeed a judgement day, they are the ones who will be judged for their misuse of God's name to spread their hatred.
 
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June 5, 2006, 10:02 pm PDT

I don't think it is a mental disorder

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I was listening to a talk show a few years ago and they stated that homosexuality was a mental disorder just like being bi-polar.  Does anyone have any thoughts about this?  I don't know very much about homosexuality.  Although, I do know some gay people whom I like very much and I have never had the courage to question them about this.  I don't understand it really.  I would like to understand it more though.

I don't think it is a mental disorder at all.  I think it is a biological thing that people are wired for.  Actually, it seems almost more of a mental issue to deny one's self of who they truly are.   

I adore and love my husband, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't occationally sexually and emotionally attracted to other females.  I don't act on it because I would consider it cheating - just as if it was a man and so I've learned to move away from those friendships if I feel they could become inappropriate.  I guess that would make my nature bi-sexual.  I don't think I'm mental though at all.  It's just a natural inclination I seem to have.  I also have learned not to become freaked out about it or run around wondering if I'm gay or not.  I guess if I'd have fallen in love with a gal instead of a guy, I'd still be this way - like it was just natural for me.   

 
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June 5, 2006, 10:12 pm PDT

You rock!

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people who are unaccepting of gays have me feeling distraught, anxious, saddened, yet still hopeful.  my husband & i have three beautiful & loving children all in their mid-twenties and our middle child (a daughter) is a lesbian.  i know this is difficult for people to understand because in the beginning (when we came to the final realization) you do think maybe they will grow out of it (but that is our own insecurities coming out)...but seeing the daily struggles of our daughter starting in her early teens trying to be whom everyone expected her to be and not her true soul was truly sad for her...and ultimately us.  through lots of tears & tribulations our daughter is today a successful & happy person.  we are thankful and blessed because our extended family (grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and friends) have turned out to be very loving and supportive.  this past year our daughter had a commitment ceremony and is now "married" to a beautiful african-american woman with a young daughter.  my daughters partner was married once before to a man because she also did in her younger years what was expected of her....though now in retrospect we are all thankful that my daughter and her partner have a daughter!....also i might add she got married to do what is expected because her brother was already out of the closet being gay...they are the only two siblings in their family.  now we have a beautiful blended multi-cultural extended family and we all love one another and get along!!!...in fact we are ALL going on a cruise together in 2006!   

Wow...how wonderful it would be if everyone had the same insight about having a gay daughter.  There have been many posts about "God's" displeasure about gays.  Deep in my heart I instantly felt that my God feels the same way about his gay children that you do...love, respect, and a sincere desire to see his children happy. 
 
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July 29, 2006, 10:36 pm PDT

Just plain mean

People who are like this are just mean.  They deserve what they get from life. 
 
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August 28, 2006, 6:50 pm PDT

Enough is enough

After a year of trying to help everyone, I think the government resources would be better spent only assisting the disabled, elderly and children affected by this storm.  Everyone else...get your own act together.  Go out and get jobs where ever the jobs are available and pull yourself up.  If you've got a big family, well, that was your choice.  Get into the solution and build your life back with your wits and hard work. 

What happened was horrible - but I wish the media would stop over informing us of every single situation.  Every day people face events that are life changing - these people are no different.  I also think any city stupid enough to re-elect the same officials get what they deserve.  The same dang thing. 

 
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August 29, 2006, 10:15 am PDT

Now this is a story of an everyday hero

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First of all, I want to say my heart goes out to the Katrina victims.  Compared to their losses, the hurricanes that hit Florida were a walk in the park, HOWEVER...a few things must be made known.

 

Our President Bush took the blame for what happened in New Orleans.  But you know what?  When a hurricane is out in the gulf of Mexico, it isn't the President of the United States who knocks on doors telling people to evacuate.  It's local officials, not govenors, not even mayors, it's local people like firemen and police. 

 

First to evacuate are the barrier islands, and it isn't done when you're under the winds of a hurricane, it's done when it's an approach of a hurricane, perhaps during the warning time.  Then the low lying areas, mobile homes, elderly, hospitals, etc.  In an order!  With a plan.  I can't believe hospital officials didn't take it in their own hands for the safety of their patients!

 

The govenor of Louisiana though, should be blamed for much for not having not only a plan in place, WAY ahead of time, but put into action in an organized fashion.  Florida is very lucky to have Govenor Bush when a hurricane hits.  The difference in pre-action is amazing.  The television reports are alarming to residents, evacuation routes are already signed in advance on the roads, stores are stocked with supplies you need, local preventative measures in the way of brochures are given to people ahead of time in grocery bags.  There are pages in the phone book of what to do in case of severe weather.  The difference is prevention.

 

I was only 3 miles away from the eye of Hurricane Charley.  Hurricane Charley for those of you who don't know is the one who was supposed to hit Tampa, but instead took a severe, quick turn onto Sanibel Island and went up the Charlotte Harbor, which is only minutes from my house.  We had VERY little warning.  What about all the planning I was writing about?  Well, it was all in place for TAMPA.  TAMPA was majorly evacuated, we had the warnings to put in outside furniture, be prepared for some high winds, have supplies handy, have pets secured, barrier islands (like Sanibel Island which was hit BAD) were evacuated ahead of time (thank God). 

 

So for what we thought as per our weather reports, we were prepared.  But weather reports can be wrong, we are dealing with a force of nature here!  A hurricane can be like a butterfly.  It can go one way, be on a path, and then suddenly turn course. 

 

I remember August 13, 2004.  I was on my computer, but had the tv on for coverage.  When I heard it hit Sanibel Island, (it still wasn't even raining outside our place) I took my dogs out to do their business and then prepared thier area.  I then put blankets and pillows in the only closet we had which had no outside walls. 

 

Then the news hit that it was heading up to the Charlotte Harbor.  And onto Edgewater Drive, which is only four blocks from my home.  Could we leave in time?   NO!  You had to hunker down the best you could.  Bridges were already closed.  No way out.  Trapped?  We didn't know for sure how hard it would hit.

 

Suddenly winds really started to pick up.  We took the cat and sat in the closet.  The rain came.  But not just rain.  It sounded like an nail gun on the windows, pow, pow, pow!  We heard the tiles being ripped from the roof.  Could hear trees snapping outside.  My husband had his body placed against the closet door and he said, 'You can't imagine the force.'  I was praying.

 

When the eye passed, we left the closet and I told my husband to not open any outside door or window because it changes the air pressure in the house.  He went and applied his hand to the sliding glass door during this time, the calmest part before the winds rip from the other direction, and he told me, you can feel the glass vibrating.

 

When it was all done with, our screened lanai was torn apart, but still intact (the only one on the street.).  Trees were down all over.  A powerline was drapped across what was left of our roof, which was down to bare plywood.  The street looked like a scene from a WWII movie.  Litter everywhere.  Shingles from everyone's homes scattered.  A piece of aluminum was forced and daggered into a garage door across the street.  Palm trees were bent over.  Tree tops were gone.  The mess was overwhelming to look at.  Our grill fell into our pool.  (What a mess, I won't even go there.)

 

After the storm was over, we went out to the garage to check on our dogs, and they were all huddled in the smallest cage together, scared...and we comforted them.  They were okay though.  We managed to get a generator the next day from a friend a few towns away so they had fans on them at least in the 90 degree heat of the day, but it was hot.   We drove two towns away to get ice just for the dogs, and to get gas for the generator.  It was to be a daily ritual for a week until we had power.  When the national guard came in, then I got my ice there, and I put it in a large kiddy pool I had, let it melt for the dogs, and it kept the floor cool too as well.  They were okay, not spoiled as normal, but more in survival mode.  (I had plenty of food for them.)

 

But we were lucky...wow were we lucky.  When we finally got down to Edgewater Drive the next couple of days, we were alarmed at what we saw.  It looked like something out of a horror show.  All you could do was cry for total strangers knowing very well, it could have been you...just a few blocks.  Homes had no roofs, windows blown out, telephone poles layed on houses, cars scattered on their sides, just horrific.

 

But you look around you and wonder, 'Where do you start?' 

 

You have no power, no phone service (not even cel phones, over 300 towers went down in the storm, you had to go two towns away before they worked.)

 

Thank God for digital cameras.  You take pictures of the devastation for the insurance company, then you begin the awesome task of clean up.  To give you an idea, I picked up seven large green garbage bags of shingles from my front yard alone.  In the HEAT of the scorching sun.  My husband had his company put a waterproof paint filler on the roof to protect our house from further damage.  I won't get into details of all the cleanup, but it was awesome.

 

You do clap and put a smile on your face when you see the national guard come in.  (Not shoot at them.) 

 

And things change.  You see disaster relief trucks, the Red Cross and Salvation army on nearly every corner.  Temporary booths set up for insurance companies to do claims.  Twisted metal everywhere, signage blown out, no traffic lights.

 

Guess what?  The community rebuilds, slowly.  There are still homes untouched.  It took us six months to get a new roof.  We called from our hotel room (which you can't call any local businesses because THEY all got hit), for needed repairs and when I called to get an estimate, the girl told me we were on page 23 of legal pads full of requests, it will be weeks if not months for any action.  Patience was something you quickly learned.  See, many of the workers, lost their homes too.  Familiar frequented places of business GONE. 

 

Yes, we hear about Katrina, but we didn't have a tenth of the publicity they had.  I didn't see Dr. Phil come to our town.  Nor Oprah, nor T.D. Jakes.  But widespread depression hit, post traumatic depression hit, families who got along great were not in divorce mode.  It's stressful.  VERY.

 

But somehow, you survive.  Your mind goes into survival mode. 

 

We didn't have nearly the damage as Katrina had, but let me tell you, I could tell you of how my best friend and her family of four kids and her husband spent six weeks in their bedroom because it was the only useable room in the house.  When the insurance finally did kick in, her family of six stayed in a 35 foot trailer for two years while their home was being repaired, and they are STILL waiting on things.  Since 2004! 

 

My heart really does go out to the kids of New Orleans and surrounding areas most.  Their lives will be changed forever. 

 

But Dr. Phil, honestly, if you want to do a story, pick the one with the most coverage.  I won't even go into the story of another friend on the east coast who lost two homes in two hurricanes within two weeks. 

 

Dr. Phil, your efforts are to be commended and praised, but honestly, you should focus on ALL hurricane victims, not just Katrina, what a total insult to victims of hurricanes Charley, Frances, Ivan, Jean, etc.  Do we not matter?  Do you know the numbers before Hurricane Jean hit that year is four out of five homes in the state of Florida were hit already?  THE whole state was hit that year, not just one town. 

 

I could only wish that you could talk to the survivors of the Florida hurricanes for equal coverage, that's all. 

 

I thank you for all you've done, especially for the children of Katrina.  I know I wrote you before to include my friend who has four kids who were hit from Hurricane Charley, and your audience coordinator called her with the wonderful news that your staff was flying her out there, placing her in a hotel, etc.  They received all the wonderful gifts you gave out on that Christmas show.  Let me tell you, it lifted their spirits.  You have NO idea how much it lifted their spirits.  And it's what you CAN do...so I acknowledge it. 

 

I truly think though, that you should focus on a DISASTER relief program, not just Katrina.  You're slighting so many people that way.  You have brought so much focus on a need, and there is so much more you could do.  Just give it some thought is all I ask. 

 

Thank you for allowing me to air my thoughts.

 

Sincerely, Kathleen of Port Charlotte

Kathleen - thank you so much for sharing your story.  It allowed me to see both the horror of a hurricane and the courage it takes to overcome.  I wish your family the best.
 
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August 31, 2006, 10:58 pm PDT

Did anyone miss the xanax addiction thing

Note to Claudia - Your mother is a weirdo - but you need to look at yourself and your xanax drug thing.  Why don't you check back in and make sure you don't need someone watching those kids while you are doped up.
 
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September 15, 2006, 7:21 pm PDT

Nasty you too

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 Gina is only this way in the super market?  Some how I don't think so and rather than her being so concerned about who's doing what to her in the super market perhaps she might want to let someone else do her shopping for her so she'll stop eating the HAM until she gets her weight under control!  Her sticking her foot out & tripping people is just ridiculas and someday she's gonna do that to someone & they're going to beat her within an inch of her life.  Aside from that again she should be concered with her weight problems & be focusing on some better nutrition and perhaps a gym membership and some EXERCISE would help her work off not just her abusive behavior but her excessive weight too! 
You are right about the super market thing...but your comments on her weight are just as nasty - you just get to hide behind the internet. 
 
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September 15, 2006, 7:32 pm PDT

Gina

Gina - I feel the same way sometimes.  In the store, driving, etc...

The difference is...I really make an effort to not take my sometimes crappy personality out on other people.  One day however, you'll ram my cart (or someone like me) and you will absolutely regret it because you'll have met your match.  Somewhere out there is another angry woman waiting for you to cross her - or worse yet - a man who will be violent.

You've got to chill out and work on not taking a rage dump on people.  You've got no idea what they are going through that day.  I mean, think of all the horrid things that can happen to someone to make them slightly thoughtless in the store:  a sick child, parent that died, teenager who is buying food because their mom is too drunk to feed them, mother who is considering suicide because of depression and your act is the last straw.  You've got no idea who and what you are touching in such an ugly way.  One day I was experiencing a migraine while driving and couldn't see out of one eyes - I was trying to navigate off the interstate and someone raged at me and I missed another car by inches.  They had no idea I couldn't see - all they could see was their own anger.

 

 

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