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November 28, 2006, 8:57 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: valoren

Dr. Morgan spent a great deal of time in jail for hiding her daughter from her pedophile husband.  Her husband vehemently denied the allegations, and the combination of his insistance and his social position swayed the judge into insisting on unsupervised visitations.  Dr. Morgan knew, in her heart, that her husband was molesting her daughter, and her daughter never backed down from the allegations she made.  Dr. Morgan ended up giving her daughter to her parents and sending them all into hiding for years.  She went to prison for protecting her child.  Once her daughter turned 18, she came out of hiding and stands by her claims that her father molested her.

 

Law is good only if it is just.  Where children are concerned, there is rarely any justice.

 

I'd be interested to find out just how things turn out with this family.  I hope the molester is found out and punished, and Kaylee gets the therapy she needs.

 

Valoren

And that child was her only child, and her only consideration. Kaylee's mother has two other small children, as did I at the time my child was molested. I could not justify taking THEIR mother away from them, or having them go into hiding with us, taking them away from their families and friends, taking their childhoods away from them..........
 
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November 28, 2006, 9:28 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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I am a mother of 5 daughters!!!!!  There is no physical evidence of sexual abuse!!!  Wake up people!  The mother is caoching that child.  The father is bi-polar and he questions his every move, even his own memory!  This tells me he's innocent and very scared!  Shame on this mother!

There was no physical evidence in my daughter's case, either, but when she spoke with a sexual abuse specialist at a children's hospital 100 miles from home, who had never met any of us, HE said that her description of what happened to her was credible and should be believed.....and I didn't coach her about anything......the thought never crossed my mind until she came to me and told me what was happening to her (she had just turned 6, and it had been happening for almost THREE YEARS by the time she told me!!).
 
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November 28, 2006, 9:33 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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it's crazy that the mother would keep sending her child to someone that she knows is harmimg her child. i would have to pull those 15 days if it meant that my child was going to be safe. i have three children 2 girls and 1 boy and i would die for them, there is NOONE or NO THING that would keep me from trying to protect my children.

it is a sad thing that in the world we live in today we cant protect our children from harm, especially when that harm is being done by a family member or someone that we are suppose to be able to trust.

as a future early childhood professional the things that the girl would tell her mother are the type of things that we are taught to look for as caregivers and teachers. it is sad to say but it is really hard to prove to the police or cps because they sometimes feel like if they get involved and it was really nothing they look at the names and families they may have destroyed and if they don't or they look at it from a stand back view then they wish they could have done more thats why she is haveing such a hard time with the courts. they have to be able to prove that the child was not told to say those things or lead to answer a certain way.

if it were me i would drop off the face of the earth, i would pack up and leave the state and whatever consequences i had to face for doing that then i would face them because your children are suppose to be able to trust you and look to you for that comfort and protection that they need, especially at this age when they can not do it for themselves. my daughter would not go anywhere with her daddy again especially unsupervised.

people like this man need to locked up for life or they need to put them on an island by themselves because they are a threat to our commiunties and the well-being of our children.

the question that always comes to my mind when i hear a story like this one is: what pleasure are you getting out of messing with a child, what kind of person would do something like this.

Please explain how Krista spending 15 days in jail.....15 days that Kaylee would be spending with JEREMY......would in any way, shape or form be protecting her daughter?  And as for dropping off the face of the earth.....without financial help, that is impossible, for one thing.....for another, the minute she got found, guess what happens? Yep, she loses custody forever, and Kaylee goes to live with Jeremy.......yeah, that makes a LOT of sense to me!!  NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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November 29, 2006, 4:29 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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I find it hard to believe that a mother would hand-off her baby to some one that SHE believes is molesting her child than to risk defying acourt order and going to jail for 15 days. I am a mother also ,and before I would give my child to some one that I feel is molesting him/her , I would go to jail first.. To keep my child safe.
Unless you have actually BEEN in those shoes, you DON'T know what you would do.....I've been there, and I did the exact same thing.....I felt as if I had no other choice.
 
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November 29, 2006, 4:42 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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I'm sorry. If I REALLY believed my daughter was being molested by someone there is NO WAY I would hand her over.

No way.

I would go to jail happily.
And the minute she goes to jail, JEREMY gets Kaylee.....and then he can use her denial of visitation to get a PERMANENT change of custody........yeah, that's really gonna protect the child, isn't it?????
 
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November 29, 2006, 5:11 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: ddnlj1

The mother of this little girl oozes hate out of every pore of her body. I wouldn't trust her any further than I could throw her. It's obvious she would go to any length to hurt someone she feels has wronged her. Is Jeremy guilty? Only he knows that. But this mother is emotionally dangerous to her child. She's a publicity-hound and  vengeful beyond imagination. I think SHE could use some psychiatric intervention.
If you truly believed that someone was molesting your child, and you couldn't find any justice or even any real HELP, you'd probably be hateful toward that person as well. DON'T judge until you've walked a mile in her shoes!!!
 
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November 29, 2006, 5:38 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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I agree and would do the jail time also, but it's not just 15 days. They can jail her every time she does not produce the child for visitation with the father. In fact, they can keep her in jail for as long as they want for "contempt of court" if she doesn't follow the courts orders.

What should she do with the other 3 kids while she is in jail?

I agree with your protect at any cost so I would take all my kids and head to places unknown and start over and hope nobody finds me.

It's a lot easier said then done though. Instead and for now they tried to make the public in their hometown aware of what is happening and you all are cruzifying them for that?

 

All well and good.......but if she DOES get found, then the child gets taken away and placed with Jeremy permanently.....and she would probably lose the other children as well.  Sounds like a GREAT way to solve the problem. Personally, I  think they are doing the best they can right now, and they need to be supported, not criticized.
 
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November 29, 2006, 6:36 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: mmcneal80

Why would Jeremy get Kaylee if mother goes to jail for 15 days.?Have the child stay with someone she trust that will keep her safe and away from him and spend your 15 days. I would do it a thousand times to make a statement that I feel he is not fit to have her at this time. Maybe then the judge would see this and grant them what they want.
As the other parent, and as the one being denied visitation (the reason she would be in jail), he is legally entitled to have the child in his custody whenever the mother can't, regardless of whether she thinks he is fit to have the child or not. I know this from personal experience.....if anything happens to me before my children turn 18, they HAVE to live with their fathers, even if I draw up legal papers appointing other guardians.....those wishes would be ignored and considered null and void as long as the fathers still retain their parental rights.
 
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November 29, 2006, 7:33 am PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: m0ther

If a parent has an attorney who does not file an exparte order, what should the parent do next?

 

Get a new attorney ASAP!!!

 
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December 8, 2006, 7:53 am PST

12/08 Out-of-Control Husbands

I haven't read any of the other comments yet, but I want to say a couple of things here. First of all, I commend Danny and Gretchen for sticking together and working to make their marriage work. Marriages in general, and marriages in Hollywood in particular, are not known for longevity, so 16 years is a big deal, especially with the things they've had working against them. And God bless Danny for finally reaching the point where he realized that he had to change and get his act together. I've watched the media reports of where he's been and what he's done, and could hardly believe that was the same "Danny Partridge" I'd enjoyed years earlier. Seeing him this morning, I was moved by his sincerity, and I wish him and his family MANY years of happiness.

 

As for the other woman....thank GOD you got out as soon as you did. I was in your shoes......I saw the signs while we were dating, but I naively presumed things would get better after we were married and committed to each other. Then I got pregnant right after the wedding, and thought a child would make things better. After ten years of dealing with verbal abuse, alcoholism, taking money from the family, and finally physical abuse, I got strong and moved on. Thank God that you have saved yourself and your daughter from those years of pain and anguish.......you deserve so much more than that, and you WILL find it one day. 

 

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