My husband and I have been happily married for over 31 years. During all these years we have pointed out attractive members of the opposite sex to each other especially at the beach...he points out all the guys in Speedos to me.
A long time ago on a vacation to the beach with my in-laws my father-in-law made a comment to me and I have lived by that comment all these years...he can look all he wants as long as he doesn't touch. How true, How true.
As much as this woman wants to show she is confident I think she is extremely insecure and has to be in control. She needs to lighten up and enjoy life because life is too short.