Messages By: fattie

I just want to say that in my 57 years of experience I have learned that probably 90% of men are worthless human beings.  But I have to say I feel sorry for some of the decent men who are duped into raising a child they think is their own.  His ex wife was absolutely despicable in her attitude and I think I can say with all honesty, it all comes down to money.  If this man had been poor, there would be no show.  The man was wrong to turn away from the daughter he had raised, no doubt about it, but he knew that now.  I know you came down on the mother, but not hard enough.  I think the daughter should also be able to put the blame of her mother in the proper context.  And having Gloria Alred on was a BIG mistake.  She was on to sell hre book and you helped her.  She is the most arrogant, egotistical woman I have ever seen.  She only cares about what cases bring her the most money.  Bringing up the fact that a huge percentage of men don't pay child support for their own biological children had nothing to do with this.  She had nothing negative to say to the mother who caused it all.  More than anything you should have focused more on the mother who was disgusting to say the least.

Thank You

Lyn 

Personally I am sick to death of the constant complaints of racism and then of course the Christians have to throw the Bible into the whole thing.  Let's face it, most people on this earth are miserable.  There are just as many arrogant, hateful black people as there are whites, Asians, and all the rest.  It will never change because there will always be those groups of people who can't see the forest for the trees.  I always get the biggest kick out of the idea that the blacks can use the N word against their own people but whites aren't allowed to say anything.  Nobody should be saying it.  It is just common courtesy.  But this isn't a world of courteous people.  It's just like when they let O.J. Simpson go free simply because he was black and he killed a white woman.  Had it been a black woman he would have been on death row.  And they knew what they were doing.  Everyone knows he is guilty.  It seems like everyone has a chip on their shoulder about something.  We ought to be worrying more about what is happening to this country because of this horrible Administration instead of constantly griping about racism.  We all share the earth for God's sake.  Wake up people.

Fattie

About the show "Banned From The Wedding."  I could have ended that in 10 minutes.  Her son was kissing his girlfriend's ass for obvious reasons.  All men do UNTIL they marry them.  All the mother should have done is step back, not say a word and let them totally be one their own.  I mean totally.  No money, not nothing.  This girl he was marrying was a control freak and he won't accept that until he marries her.  You could tell she didn't have an ounce of emotion in her.  She was enjoying the whole thing.  I would be willing to bet it won't take a year for that marriage to be a mess and the Mother in Law wouldn't have to do a thing.  I was in a similar situation.  My son met a girl and within a matter of months she had him convinced to move to San diego, become a vegetarian and totally change his lifestyle.  We never tried to stop him.  Well, it wasn't 6 months and they were in counseling and now they just live in the same house, sleep in separate beds and stay together because she won't work and he is petrified of her.  I have told him my opinion of what he should do but that's it.  I know she is using him and he is scared to take the first step because he if afraid of alimony.  She sits on her butt with no job, no children.  Since marrying her he has become depressed, diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder and is on a multitude of drugs.  He even talks sometimes of suicide, which I pray he won't do.  All because of this marriage.  This woman he thought was so wonderful he would follow her to the ends of the earth.  This woman on the show should have just kept her mouth shut and let her son do exactly what he wants.   Time will probably end this marriage on it's own and his Mother would have never had to say a word.

Fattie

I don't understand why you keep dragging these people on the show.  If my son thought I was too much trouble I would just say "fine, just don't come running to me when you need something."   Men will do anything for a woman until he marries her and lives with her a little while.  The Mother should just back off and I can almost guarantee he will be divorced from her in record time.  And it won't be long before they will want something and that is just too bad.  I have 2 sons, one in a similar situation except that I just totally stay out of it.  It kills me to see him used like he is, but he is an adult and he has to learn for himself.  I mean where do these people come from.  I'm from Oklahoma and everyone thinks we are all a bunch of hicks.  Obviously they are everywhere.

The Troll 

This is one I never did understand.  Who cares and why does the daughter most of all.  These men are a dime a dozen.  I don't even find it unusual. 

Fattie

Why all of a sudden is this Pastor on almost every week?  Is he all knowing or something?  Why in this country does everything have to come down to religion.   Now your show seems to think this will pull in more of the so called "good people."   I am so sick of these pastors that get on every show there is today and people act like they know so much more than anyone else.  This just goes along with how stupid the shows are getting.  I turn it off now more than I ever did.

Disgusted

Is anyone else getting really sick of these shows where he brings on these people like this who I have no doubt have a real problem but here is a woman who was a nurse and married to an attorney.  She is obsessive compulsive, obviously, but they both earned a lot of money until she got out of hand.  Now I can understand offering her psychiatric help but it never  fails at the end of the show he pays to have their house totally renovated so they can start over.  I have seen it over and over again.  Stupid shows like the bride who was upset because her wedding wasn't perfect.  Well, la de da.  Most of us out here have entire lives that are miserable.  So what does he do, at the end of the show he gives them a free trip.  Some shows are nothing but getting cute young people on there for the stupidest reasons and then handing them free stuff.  No wonder people want to come on.  They all think they will get something.  He should only give free things to people who truly are in need like the couple with the deaf, blind triplets.  They deserve all the help they can get.  These other people are just users who feel sorry for themselves.