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October 29, 2007, 6:46 pm PDT
10/29 Parent Trap
Quote From: cindy6starThe real villian, in my opinion is Enriques new wife. Absolutely, she raised this whole issue so he would pay less child support to improve her own financial situation. How dare she come in and say that the one daughter doesn't look like him. What if she had been wrong? Did she ever think of that? Sure the 1st wife was wrong not divulging this deception but we don't know their situation at that time. Maybe she simply made a bad judgement 10 years prior. Maybe she really wasn't sure, so why bring it up if he isn't suspicious? The poor daughter must have felt terrible and alone. I am from a divorced family and even when your real Dad leaves, you think it's your fault. I know of a family situation close to me, in which a 2nd husband joined a Mother & son. They then had 3 boys of their own but when this 2nd marriage didn't work out, he was forced to pay child support to the one boy who wasn't his, as well. The judge felt that he had acted as a Father figure for a long-enough period and "how dare he" keep the 4th child from receiving any financial aid, simply because he's now out of the picture. I would say the same thing applies here. I would be thankful for Mia. If it weren't for her than he may have never found out. The mother is the villian completly. Why isnt anyone blaming her??? Why is the dad getting all the blame? Because he is a man? Her actions caused all this pain. Today commiting adultry is seen often as "bad judgement" that is a bunch of crap. It doesnt matter what the situation was..You DONT cheat on your spouse. If you arent divorced you dont mess with other people, thats it. She was married, she cheated, got pregnant and lied about it. Okay, lets say it was a bad choice which, hello, it was, she still needed to be honest with him about it. He wasnt even able to make a disicion whether or not he wanted to be apart of the childs life, knowing it wasnt his. Now because its been years that she has kept this secret it's too late for him, he is forced to pay. It is very unfortunate that there relationship has ended, I dont agree with that but he definitly should not be forced to pay. The mom needs to pay him back. There should be legal actions against this witch. Mia is easy to blame because she brought this up but good thing she did. The man deserved to know and this womans lie needed to come out.
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