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February 28, 2006, 3:29 pm PST

Saddened due to the loss of a family

This show made me very sad in seeing a mother that has given her life for her son to now be casted aside. Saddened about the children that should be the first priority but is not.  The dil is very selfish in not understanding that all of them need each others love to stand against what the world has to dish out to them.  She has her mother well this mil needs to be included in the circle.  The mil needs to pull the family together not pull it apart.  Well I heard them talk about mil's husband where was he during all of this???  He should be the head of this family and straighten them up!  Life is to short to be at battle among the family.  When you loose them, maybe at that time you will understand just how important FAMILY is!!!!!!!
 
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March 6, 2006, 1:23 pm PST

GET OUT ---- QUICK BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!!!!!!

Sinden get out before it is too late!!!!  I was married to someone just like him.  Robert worked for the Dept. of Corrections in Administration and it is the mind set of these men that work for law enforcement.  Everything that you are talking about , I  went thru.  Get out before he turns your kids against you and believe me this will happen.  Even though you said  or he said that he twisted your finger, next time it just might be your neck.  A liar is always a liar, they make themselves look good only and make you look like the bad one.  GET OUT BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

 
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March 9, 2006, 2:20 pm PST

HAD ENOUGH!!!!!!

Dr Phil, 

I have so much respect for you and your show's and will say that I have known you for quite some time, all the way back to "Pathways" in Texas.  I cannot believe that you are waisting our time and yours on this family that have the means to take care of their sick problems that are self inflecting! What they are doing is sick and they know this with their smirk faces.  There are a lot of people out here that truly need you help that don't have the means to help themselves other than through your kind, deep and true heart.   Please, Dr Phil, lets get back to the real world and real people!!!!!     

 
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July 16, 2006, 2:09 am PDT

Just don't understand!!!!!

I just don't understand human nature!  I was a good mother, very devoted to my two children that I had to raise by myself and I don't understand these two girls at all.  I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer and three months into my chemo treatments my daughter left my life taking my only granddaughter.  It has been 2 yrs 6 months and 3 days since I have seen them.  Here you have two mothers that did not love their daughters enough to take care of them and they are still wanting love from them.  I just don't understand, you love and take care maybe too much and they leave when you need them the most and then these two situations where you can see that the daughters are really crying out for love and an answer.  Well girls, I am a mother on the other end of your situation and I would like to find out why too.  The both of you are worthy, beautiful and loving.  I hope that the rest of your life will be happy, healthy and prosperious.
 
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November 10, 2006, 8:26 pm PST

PLEASE GOD, PROTECT THIS CHILD!

I watched all three days of this show and my heart ached for this child and fear gripped my very soul.  The reason is that it has been 2 years 9 months and 27 days since I have seen my granddaughter - Hayley and my daughter - Christa.  I was 3 months inside being diagnosed with Breast Cancer and going thru chemotherapy treatments and they left my life.  I had reasons to believe that what Kayley is going thru that my Hayley might just be also.  Some of the same signs were there!  My daughters husband (a very controlling person), I believe seperated us for this reason.  Now I do not know where my daughter or granddaughter are.  What I saw on this show, as Dr. Phil says "There are no accidents in this world."  Well I believe that it was no accident that I saw this show on this paticular day when I was suppose to be at the Doctors office but was canceled at the last minute.  The simulatries of the names!!!  I truly feel that someone is trying to tell me something.  It's not just the names, or the signs of abuse but a true gut feeling that I have got to start searching for my granddaught again.  She was my life and now this show has given me reason that I have got to try harder to find her.  This is for Christa, Kayley's mother and grandmother.  "Grandmother protect your granddaughter and your daughter while you can because you never know what might happen in the future!!!!!"  I will be praying for your situation that GOD erases all this from little Kayley's mind and make her whole.

 

 
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November 13, 2006, 7:40 pm PST

What are you thinking

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I FEEL LIKE IM BACK IN MY OWN HELL AS A CHILD I KNOW WHAT THIS LITTLE GIRL IS FACING IN HER  FUTURE. BOTH PARENTS  SHOULD  BE JAILED ,, THE MOTHER  WAS TOLD  BY HER DAUGHTER  THEY WERE TOUCHING  HER  ... ANDTHIS LITTLE GIRL WAS SCARED TO DEATH TO GO WITH THE FATHER... GRANTED I THOUGHT  HE WAS TELLIN THE TRUTH . AND THE GRANDMOTHER  N DAUGHTER WERE  MAKIN FALSE HOODS AGAINST  HIM , AS I WATCHED THE SERIES WATCHIN HIS BODY LANGUAGE AND HE HAD TO THINK OF  IF HE PUT HIS TONGUE IN HIS DAUGHTERS  MOUTH  THERES A CLUE DUH  IM NO EXPERT  BUT  I AM A SURVIVER OF MOLESTATION. DR PHIL GET THIS LITTLE GIRL OUT OF THIS SITUATION SHE IS  OUR FUTURE ,, WE AS ADULTS HAVE TO DO  EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO MAKE HER CHILDHOOD HAPPY  NOT FULL OF THE PAIN  BOTH PARENTS  ARE PUTTING  THIS LITTLE GIRL  THROU .

 

What is your problem?  Kaylee loves her mother and she needs that love in her life, as well as the grandmother's love since the father is such a dirt bag!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Maybe Krista did not handle it as Dr Phil would have wanted her to but if I had my hands on this infidel I don't know what I would have done.  This man needs to be incarcerated and let the inmate population deal with him.  There is the only place that I know of that deals with this crime against children CORRECTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Krista  and her mother are only trying to protect Kaylee!!!!!!  Krista and Bonnie TAKE CARE OF KAYLEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  No matter what anyone says!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Krista, Haylee was a precious gift from God and he will help you.

You will be in my prayers.

 
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October 3, 2007, 1:59 pm PDT

Is The Judicial System Working For Britney

My problem with Britney's son's being taken away is the reason that the judge placed this decision on his order.  No doubt, Britney is out of control but to remove her children on the basics that he did - no drivers license and not taking a drug and alcohol test.  Yes, she did not do what he ordered her to do but is that a reason to remove the children.  You would think that it would have had to be because she was mistreating her children, neglect or various charges of not being a good mother.  Not obeying the order should have resulted in other punishment but not the removal of her children.  No doubt she probably will get her children back with all the money that she has at her disposal right along with the problems that this seperation will do to their family.  This just shows me again and again and again how broken our judicial system is and just how much power that one man(the Judge) has over us all.  WAKE UP AMERICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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October 4, 2007, 7:00 pm PDT

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Your post is two things:  (a) A contradiction...."no doubt Britney is out of control but to remove her children..." What did you want the judge to do?  Wait until she actually hurt the kids in her "out of control" behavior before taking them away to safety?? And (b) ".....taking them away.....not taking a drug and alcohol test".....As a grandparent who has lived this type of behavior from her own daughter, there is a reason she didn't take the test - SHE WOULD HAVE FAILED!!  I don't know how many times my own daughter would say "I didn't know, I forgot....blah, blah", only to discover that she had been using the entire time and this was just her latest excuse!!  The judge ORDERED her to do these things and SHE DID NOT COMPLY WITH THE COURT'S ORDERS.  Ignore the orders does not make this a "broken judicial system", it makes this nothing more than someone who thought they were above the law!  This judge obviously saw the children in danger with her behavior and many facts presented in the court room that you/we do not know.  How sad that you immediately blame the judicial system and place your belief into a once-pop-star!  Until you've walked these shoes, it might be best to sit back and wait for ALL the facts!!

To respone to your very bitter post, it is very apparent that your are very angry with your own situation.  But to address what I said in mine, I said that basics that he made his decision, which has been stated on the news, TV etc.  There are children that live thru and in horrible situations and C.P.S., the police etc., are brought in the picture but the kids somehow end up back in that home over and over again.  (DON'T YOU READ THE PAPER OR WATCH THE NEWS?)  Then you see other situations where a hard working single mother runs into bad luch and she looses her children to the system.  Every case that goes thru our courts sets a precedent for a case to follow.  That is too much power to put out there with a high profile case as this.  The two reasons that were stated for the removal of her children was excessive.  THE JUDICIAL SYSTEM IS BROKE!!  The reason that I can say this is because I worked within the judicial system for 11 years and I saw first hand.  I'm sure with her wealth that she has maids, body guards and others in the home around the children and if they were in danger, don't you think someone would have said something before now.  This HOLLYWOOD PUBLICITY cases are out of control and it is only hurting the common people that have survive in this world. I too am a grandmother and I am concerned about the world and the system that they are going to have to grow up and live in.  GET OUT OF YOUR LITTLE BOX AND LOOK AT THE "BIG PICTURE"!  Wonder how well anyone of us would do if our lives were under a magnifying glass as hers is everyday? Would our children be taken away?  If so, wonder what the reason would be?  GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU!

 
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February 21, 2008, 3:09 pm PST

Division and Discord

Rita (grandmother) I know what you are feeling but you are going about this all wrong. "Do what you have always done and you will get what you have always gotten." Take a moment and listen to my story.  October 14, 2003 I was diagnosed with Inflamatory Breast Cancer and January 14, 2004 was the last time that I saw my daughter or my granddaughter and there has been another child born thru my daughter and I don't know if it is a boy or a girl. I too wanted to get my grandparents rights to see my little angel but I knew that this would only divide the family further. We as mothers want to get in there and fix the situation, it's just in us, but GOD gives us free will and who are we to do anything else but give them free will to make the decisions in their own lives. I have to admit that this is how I feel now 4 yrs, 1 month & 7 days later but I did not see it this way back then. I drove up and down the street that my daughter lived in hope and praying that I would just get to see them. Believe me I know the pain, uncertainty, hurt and wanting to know why? What did I do to deserve this! They were my blood, my daughter, my granddaughter but you see we sometimes do not know or will ever get our answer but this I do know, what you are doing is creating division and discord for your grandson to have to deal with. Your grandson does not need to go thru this at this age in his life. In these last years I have gone into the prisons to minister to women incarcerated, learning and listening to their stories of how they got there searching for answers. I spoke to some that had done awful things but their families were their to support them and then I would speak with others that had done something so simple to get them there and they were totally alone, abandoned by their families. There is no black or white guidelines in life but if all of you involved in this situation do not stop, it is the children that it will fall on and I do believe that you do not want anything to happen to them. You as a mother and grandmother has to come to the understanding that this is not good for your grandson! If your grandson was being abused or mistreated this situation would be different and I would say keep going and protect him, but I did not hear that addressed on this show. Your daughter is his mother and he lives there with her, how do you think that this could be good for him to be in the middle of this. There is a possibility that anger and bitterness could be begining to grow inside him with all this going on now! There is enough in the world that we now live in from outside influences and situations that these young people have to grow up in that their family and home should be their safe place to fall. The stiring up of this situation in your family will not and can not heal with all this fighting going on. Be a "Real" mother and grandmother and love your family from a distance and believe that healing can begin for restoration. You know sometimes we just can't look at our situations and say "I am right and I am going to fight to prove that I am right!" The damage that can come from this is far to great a price to pay if it leads our children and grandchildren into distruction. Put the "I'm right" mind of thinking in the trash and do what is best for the family even if it cuts you literally to your soul.  I can promise that the hurt will become easier and if you truly believe and have FAITH, in time you will be vindicated and restoration will come. THINK ABOUT IT!  Cancer did not take me out and I went thru this alone without my family and I will see restoration in my family and will be vindicated of wrong words that have been said against me.  My hope is that you just think about what I have said. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!!
 

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