Messages By: snoopymustang

These girls are "full of themselves".  It appears that they really do think they are a bit better than others.  Perhaps they are doing some "leveling" (as Dr. Phil calls it!) by trying to create this persona of themselves as being so beautiful and making others feel beneath them.  Acually these two girls are NOT raving beauties.  Sure they look nice and well put together, but really not above average in looks.  Not natural beauties.  The blond seems to want to change and seems to want to become a better person.  She looked much prettier without the makeup!  The make up made her look stiff and fake.  The brunette should give that a try!  Come on girls...liberate yourselves and get off your  throne!  Come on down to earth and enjoy yourselves like the rest of us "plain" women!

I am 43 and am 5'8 and weigh 112. I have an eating disorder.  Yes, your sisterin-law probably has a disorder.  I struggled with anorexia in my late teens/early 20's.  I managed to get help and was OK for 20 years!  Then at age 41 the ugly disease resurfaced.  Anorexia and Eating Disorders are never CURED.  They may be "dormant" for years, but the person has to be careful with their thinking and habits.  My "problem" resurfaced when I had a traumatic thing happened in my life.  Now I have struggled again to get myself back on rack.  Your sister-in-law most likely won't admit she has a problem until she is ready to seek help.  She will deny it and make up excuses as to why she is thin and losing weight.  She will avoid eating with others.  Hopefully her husband is "onto her" and will try to reach her!  Talk to him and make sure he is aware of the disease.  Get him reading material.  I wish her them best.  It's a horrible disease.  I feel fortunate to be past it and on the way to recovery for the SECOND time.  There is no age limit for this disease, it just seems more common in teens.