Messages By: tngirl33

My sister has a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son and they are totally out of control. they are way over weight because my sister eats out all the time and she lets them eat what they want when they want. My 12 year old neice tells my sister what she is and isnt going to do. She beat me up a couple of months ago! yes my neice! and my sister blamed me! i cant stand to hear her son's voice. he is so spoilt that he screams out loud when he dont get his way and it doesnt matter where you are. He torments my 7 year old and my child loves him! He is sneaky mean and wont ask me for anything..he will yell "mommy' as loud as he can until she answers him and  if he wants her to come to him she does.  He whispers her ear to ask for something in my house! makes me sick. The other day he and my son were playing and y son ask him where something was and he told him"if it was up your but you would know it!" is it wrong that I cant stand to be around this child? My neice is getting Fs on her report card and my sister grounds her for a day and then it is over..she has recieved several letters from the school about her behavior and my sister blames the school and says they are picking on her child lol. What is wrong with them?

My son was in a car wreck and has fluid on his brain..He has been to a neuro doctor. The doctor said he could continueu playing football...gave him anti seizure medicine and sent him home.  She did no MRI or CT scan. Well, I made an appointment with another doctor for a second opinion. However, It was time to start his spring training for football..(Junior in high school). I called his coach to tell him that he could not be hitting during practice until he saw another doctor. He wanted to just kick him off the team. I told him he couldnt kick him off because he loved footabll so much it wouold crush him..and he started screaming at me and saying that he couldnt take care of all the kids..that we expect too much from him..that we want him to win all the games and take care of all the boys..well I asked him what the big deal was because he had already told my son earlier that he would not be starting this year. And he told me the reason my son wasnt starting this year is because he is not the best. Now my question is...should I raise a stink about this..its funny how the BEST is the son of the president of the quarterback club. Aslo, his dad owns the biggest construction company here, and hsi dad built the school an new edition on. He is the star of the team! My son has been neglected by coaches because  we dont have money. Any advice?

My mother is going around telling everyone that nobody loves her and she is going to kill herself. My sister are I have had it with her. Whenever she comes around us she only puts us down and never has anything nice to say and then she gets mad because we dont want her around. She thinks she does nothing worng. Any suggestions?

My sister and I have told her over and over that we love her but she is too negative. We are trying to get our lives together and raise our kids without all the negativity in their lives and then here she comes. She will ask my kids if I have fed them today. She ask them what they ate. She ask if I have paid any attention to them today! If I have company, she comes over and embarrasses me by putting me down about how bad a mother I am to my kids. If I am not in my kid's face all the time..I am neglecting them. She nevre comes over and says anything nice. So when  I ignore her and tell her to stay away., she threatens to kill herself. She does this to my sister and her kids too. It is driving us crazy. She wrote my sister a letter and told her that she has forsake her and she will regret it one day. My sister is soo upset. Nothing we do for her is good enough. We cant support her financially. We do good to support our own family. But she expects us too. It's just crazy. We tell her to get a life.