Quote From: bearcourageThank you for your response. And you have a very valid point in regard to the comparison. I was thinking, but failed to type, that there are very very few relationships or marriages that atleast one of the parties has not had an affair atleast once. I think all long term relationships and marriages tend to hit slumps and often times this goes unchecked until the disaster of an affair occurs. The are alot of occasions to where the innocent person in the relationship becomes sick as a result. I have worked in the medical field for a long time and have seen this happen time and time again. Most the time when people are having affairs they don't take the time to talk about STDs or birthcontrol, etc. and innocent people get hurt. With what we do, there is a great deal of honesty and a great deal of frankness. That translates into safety. I just don't understand why there is such a stigma attached to this other than society says it is taboo. I have actually had people tell me that having an affair is better than this and honestly, I totally disagree. Just my opinion.
Was just wondering where you got your information about there being Very Very few relationships or marriages that at least one of the parties has not had an affair at least once??? I'm not foolish to think that there are not many affairs now-a-days, BUT I also disagree that VERY VERY few marriages are without someone involved in an affair. As far as I'm concerned, though, Swinging is just a Glorified way of having an affair. If the couple had not agreed to swinging, then they probably would be having an affair. Why on earth get married if this is the lifestyle you planned on living? It's so darn disgusting esp. when you think of all the STD's etc....(along with the morality and self respect involved) Yes, Of course you can be honest in your Swinging relationship...there surely is nothing to hide because you are doing Exactly what you want to do!! Guess Marriage isn't the Blessed Union that it should be huh?
UGGGHHHHHHH!!!!! :(
