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April 6, 2006, 7:12 am PDT

Gina is like the "Stupid Girls" video by Pink

There are a lot of women out there who help encourage men to think this way because of their shallow values. I love that song "Stupid girls" by Pink. Hits the nail on the head ;-)
 
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October 12, 2006, 5:05 am PDT

WAKE UP DR> PHIL

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These cries for help are examples of our sad society.  "My dream would be to find a sponsor..."  SPONSOR????  This society/generation seems to constantly whine and look for handouts. Without a doubt they have sad situations and I don't mean to belittle their hard times.  We've lost touch with the teachings of our elders. Saving for a rainy day, preparing for our future, and money management doesn't seem to be of any importance anymore; instead, everyone seems to be looking for someone else to carry the burden. We are running out of elses!  I've seen time and time again how helping someone out of a hard time doesn't help them in the long run because it's usually their own inadequacies in management that got them there in the first place. Therefore, yet another hard time is in their near future.  For the rare few that work really hard (not their perception of their hard work), I cheer helping them.

 

I dread the showing of how the homeless are treated on the street. I fear the one sidedness. I can say from first hand experience that there is help for the truly homeless. The vast majority have put themselves there and are looking for handouts. Many people are burned out of trying to help others just to see them in the same spot a little further down the road. There are TWO sides to this.

 

If it's not money, it's a relationship that has gone awry.  We don't teach how to deal with either anymore, or we're teaching the wrong lessons.

I agree. WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE DR. PHIL. They are mooching off of you because they know if they bring crying children to the show you will help. If you go back next year they will be in the exact same situation. You can't get pregnant three times by mistake or five times like the RV family.

I have worked since 1994 with panic and anxiety disorder because I am a single mom and I had no choice. I am from a third world country and have experienced "real" poverty first hand. That RV would be a luxury home only millionaires could afford in my country. If these spoiled, lazy, bay popping, welfare collecting, pot smoking people want to see how well off they are send them on a visit to a third world country.

 
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May 2, 2007, 5:03 am PDT

women need to lose the victim menatality

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I don't believe that this dind of aggressive behaviors should be tolerated period.  I hope that through the years your children have seen and picked up you & your stepping in and have seen that their fathers behavior is *wrong*.  IMO Behaviors are taught as much & if not more than they are inherited.  If they're seeing their father ranting & verbally abusing people including them then that's what they're learning in terms of behavior.  You're able to see that his bullying is something that came from his mother's abuse & this *will* continue in your kids.  If there are times when your husband is rational in thought & you're able to talk to him then try explaining & appealing to the side of him that experienced the abuse as a child & tell him you want to get help.  Unless he'd be willing to get help I personally would leave there.  I do not really believe in divorce &/or certainly not as fast as marriages are thrown away today.  I always knew however, that being afraid in my own home was something I just could not live with & would be the 1 thing that would drive me out but fast.  I had girlfriends who would be tip toing around the house so as not to "make their dad mad" & they were always terrified to set them off.  There was no such fear when I went home & my parents were old school!   If I talked back or was rude etc. I might have got slapped or yelled at but the idea of a mistake or too much noise wouldn't have set off mom or dad so that they were seen as some mosters.  I just remember all those friends literally hiding in their rooms & such & there was none of that at home.  HOme should be your haven from the world not the battle grounds.

I couldn't agree with you more. I am a 42 yr. old single mom. I have raised my 15 yr old alone and had enough sense to stop popping out more kids in the hopes of holding on to a man or welfare checks (whatever the motivation might be). I have been in a abusive relationship towards me but got out as soon as I saw the first sign of it. I would die before I let any man touch my son, leave alone living with someone like that for 2-3 yrs for free room and board. These moms are no better than PROSTITUTES. Selling thmeselves and their CHILDREN for free room and board because they don't want ot get off their butt and get a job!!

How about continuing to pop out babies when you can't afford to take care of the first one? Are you ten kinds of STUPID or what? I feel very sorry for the children born to such moms because they will probably have low self esteem and repeat teh same cycle of abuse.

I DON"T FEEL SORRY FOR THIS WOMAN for marrying a man that treats her children like garbage. She needs to have her TUBES TIED before she pops out any more babies and gets into more abusive relationships. She TORE UP HER CARD FOR MOTHERHOOD.

 
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May 23, 2007, 6:08 am PDT

Sucks to be the unwanted daughter, sister and wife :-(

My mother was the same way as Virginia when she found out that my sister was sleeping with my husband in HER house :-( She never told me. I was the last person to find out. Not only was I betrayed by my husband of six months, but I was also betrayed by my sister and mother of 25 years. I never felt so unwanted and unloved in my whole life :-(

I don't let anyone get that close to me anymore so that I never have to feel that much pain ever again. I might be alone for the rest of my life but I will never be used like that ever.

 
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May 23, 2007, 6:10 am PDT

05/23 Secret Love: The Aftermath

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You seem to have forgiven your husband so why be so hard on your sister? I don't understand it for the life of me. You can forgive your husband but are having a hard time getting over what your sister did. As far as I am concerned, if you can forgive one, who is not blood related, you can forgive the other. They both knew what they were doing, so none is more guilty or innocent than the other. She will always be your sister, husbands come and go, especially the ones like him. Neither cared two hoots about your feelings at the time.

I don't like to involve children in these situations. If they want to see their aunt, they should be able to. Don't involve them in your mess.

I went thru the same thing and had a much harder time forgiving my sister because she was my blood and I had known her a lot longer than my husband. So, I expected more out of her than I would some random woman that might have slept with my husband.
 
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November 21, 2007, 1:04 pm PST

Wade is crazy but she is crazier

No normal woman would play the games that she is. Wade is crazy but she is crazier. Points to consider

1. She says that she is taying with a suspected serial killer/rapist to protect other people from harm (are u kidding me?)

2. To keep her kids safe she takes them to Wade's parent's house.??? The same parents who keep guns. Why would they keep Wade away from his children when they let him come retieve his gun?

3. She calls Wade after taking too many sleeping pills. Nobody calls up a person they think is going to kill them when they are going to be helpless and asleep from too many pills. And for that matter, nobody goes into coma from two ambiens. This woman is lying.

4. Why did she call Jack and not a Dr. Phil staff when she was concerned about finding out the truth. Why would she ask someone she thinks is a danger to her, to play rape games and role play?

 

Too many things don't add up about this lady. She loves the limelight and being the center of attention and coming across as a helpless victim being brave and saving the world from her big bad husband. Wade is a run of the mill PTSD case without a grasp on reality. But his wife is a psycho in disguise. She eggs him on when he is acting crazy instead of walking away.

 
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November 21, 2007, 1:05 pm PST

11/21 A Husband's Shocking Confessions, Part 3

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I dont believe this woman.  I do not believe that she is being totally honest.  It appears that she is playing psycological games with her husband.  His anger that is portrayed on stage, is reasonable from my perspective.  as I sit and watch her tell her husband to calm down, if I were on stage, and in his shoes, I surely would be pissed off.  have her take a polygraph.  she is toying with his emotions as she is a willing participant in role playing.  but as she sits on stage, she puts all responsibilty on him.

I hope he gets the proper help he needs and looses her like a bad habit.

I agree 100%. She is lying and manipulating Dr. Phil as well as Wade.
 
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November 21, 2007, 1:07 pm PST

11/21 A Husband's Shocking Confessions, Part 3

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I would have to say that this show was a complete joke, in the beginning his wife didn't believe one word that came out of his mouth,then when he admits to murdering someone, she soaks it up to believe it was the truth?????? what a joke, In my opinion I think she is as sick as he is? He is trying to get attention from here, she looks like an idiot here, and you Dr. Phil what kind of stupid questions are you askin, he got her good when he said she was the one who is role playing in the sex after telling here about the murders, she says she thinks she is going crazy..HELLO she is crazy ,way out to lunch, he is sick,but you know what,she is sicker. Who would stay with a man that admits to killing someone, if that was me,man I would be out of here. More after the show..........

Totally agree. She is using him to be on TV and get sympathy as the poor, enduring wife.
 

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