Messages By: saemae

In the movie Wall Street, Michael Douglas had the famous line of "Greed is good."  Well, for some people, greed is this horrible thing that turns into a fun competition for them.  Can I rip my other family members off of this one rich relative's estate?  If I do, then I win.  I have never seen the point of fighting over a dying person's belongings; to me it cheapens their life somehow.  Let me share what happened to my husband.

My husband's uncle was diagnosed with terminal cancer.  He lived on the family estate, which he had separated in his will to his two nephews and two nieces, my husband being one of the nephews.  Well, as soon as the uncle found out he was sick, his niece (who is in her early twenties) began "whispering" in his ear about how if he kept the will as is, some of the property would eventually go to "outsiders" (the outsiders were my kids from my first marriage  He thought it was a sin for my husband to marry a divorced woman and she knew this and RAN with it!)  She did this day and night and eventually drove him herself (with her equally greedy mother) to the attorney's office to have the entire estate left to her.  She even had her mentally disabled sister written out of the will!  The week after he died, she had all his worldly possessions, the entire family estate, out on the front lawn, selling to the highest bidder.  And the property?  Well, she has to fund her world travels somehow, so guess what's happening to the "family estate" that is supposed to stay in the family?  As soon as probate closes, it's on the market!

My husband has cut all ties with that particular part of the family and cannot understand why his mother wants anything to do with them.  He didn't particularly care for any part of the inheritance except for some personal items that had been promised to him that she sold at the estate sale, but he was terribly angry for his brother's sake.  This woman has literally been rubbing her newfound wealth in his mom's face, buying expensive handbags and new cars while they are struggling to get by.  The part that makes me mad is how she treats my in-laws and my kids; like they are dirt beneath her holy feet.  She and her mother make me sick, and I am only comforted by the fact that in the end, they will face judgement for their greed and gluttony.  I don't think their punishment can come soon enough.  Luckily I have a husband that refuses to force us to endure any more of their nonsense.  Evil creatures!

That woman has really big problems that have nothing to do with her daughter and son-in-law.  That woman is "tetched."  Who in their right mind makes graves for her daughter AND her baby granddaughter?  That just screams psycho.  If I were related to this woman, I'd steer clear of her.  She is as nutty as a fruitcake!

Get over yourself, Bambi!  You need a shrink, big time.  You are simply a loon!

Why in the world would you defend the grandparents, Phil?  Come on, you still have a brain in that large cranium of yours, don't you?  If my parents knew for a SECOND one of my daughters were missing, I'd have been the victim of murder myself.  They would have KILLED me, and I'm thirty-five!  And it wouldn't take them SIX WEEKS to find out the grandbaby was gone; heck, it wouldn't take them twenty-four hours! 

It takes a village to raise a child, and that child's village was full of idiots.  They left a little girl in the hands of an obviously deranged individual, in the hands of an immature brat who wanted to flash her ta-tas to the world and much like Peter Pan never grow up.  Well as far as I'm concerned, she can grow up and grow old in a jail cell, and her parents should join her for a spell because they are just as guilty!

I am sick and tired of women lying to get pregnant then holding someone else responsible for their stupidity.  If we women are just as capable as men in all things, we should be capable of being honest and upright about our decisions.  If we want a baby, we shouldn't lie and tell the guy we are on birth control when we are not, then expect Super Dad nine months later.  That's just moronic and it's insulting.  If the man and woman participated in unprotected sex that was UNDERSTOOD to be unprotected, both bear the blame and the responsibility.  If the women misrepresents herself in order to get pregnant, SHE ALONE is responsible for the results.

These tactics belittle all females everywhere.  We have to face facts.  Some women just have kids for the checks.  This woman is a prime example.  Five thousand-dollar appearance fee?  Please.  Get some pride and some dignity, why don't you?  I think the courts need to seriously take a second look at this issue.  This nation is quickly becoming a nation of schemers who will do ANYTHING for a quick buck.  And the kids are the ones who suffer, through abuse and neglect.  I personally find the whole situation as repulsive as Gloria Allred.  That lady does NOT speak for me.  That poor child will spend his life wondering why his dad doesn't want him; and the truth is, the dad shouldn't be held at gunpoint to bond with this lady's money-making scheme.

My four kids all know who their fathers are.  The first two are PLANNED from a previous marriage.  The other two are from my current marriage, and were also planned.  I even offered the first dad an out so he wouldn't have to pay support; I don't want any man claiming he keeps me up through child support, because on the paltry sum I get from him it's just not true.  And the offer still stands.  I'd rather my kids not feel like a financial burden or a meal ticket.  And that lady should be ashamed that she has done this to an innocent child.