Messages By: psychwife2

well i won't take my life or anything like that there is no way i promise that............ alright i will see you in the morning

sweet dreams

Recently, I found out that my friend for 4 years was molested as a child. So far, that's all I know of. From the looks of it, it has been bothering her ever since she was a young girl. I really want to help her and make her feel better. It's so hard to try to help her when counseling and therapist and all that stuff aren't available to her. There really isn't a lot of money available for this kind of resource. I want to so badly help her, but I can obviously say that I'm notherapist or psychologist, nor do I have any experience within this area. I try my hardest to listen to her. Her family really isn't there for her, so it's hard. So far I don't know what to do. I've tried making her understand that it wasn't her fault. Lately she's been falling back into her old habits, which involve, drugs and alcohol. I really want to get help for her since she's at the point in her life where she's starting to become and adult and is starting to be at the point where she's independent and in control of her life. She's about to graduate and attend college andpretty much be in charge of her life. I can't say I understand how it is to be molested, because its never happened to me, nor have I've known someone that has gone through this. All I want is just to help her. I'm worried about her. All I want is for her to forget her past and not have her haunt her. She's getting to the point where she's giving up on life. If anyone has any suggestion about how they overcame or knew someone that overcame this, suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

no way i have a big group of missionary friends in scottland how cool is that!!! i wnat to scottland last year for a missions trip but i wan't there for the festivle.......... this group is going to be in the festivle also oooooooo boy that excites me sooooo much!!!! weeeeeeeeee!!!!! He will love it!!! It will be an amazing experience!!!!

heheh i like the little giddy face thing but i dont kno wif i know what giddy means i just like the face..... a better face for happy it's more fun LOL

I live 6 1/2 hours away from my parents... They have been practically begging me to come home and help out, since my mom's knee is a pain... I would be happier at home, as much as I love my fiance, but things where he and I are at right now (location wise) are awful. He and I aren't living together, and if we both moved here where my parents are, we both have family here in the same area. My parents are trying to buy me a car, because I can't afford one on my own at all. I work part-time, and I barely make enough to cover my rent, etc. My parents want me back here too because I really have no friends where I'm at now, and I have friends here. I am just so lost as to what to do. I really want to help my parents out, but at the same time, I have this feeling that something will happen to get me to not move home, should I make that decision. Well, it's shower time for now, I woke up way too early, so now I gotta try to get myself to not be so sleepy....

Dorth