Messages By: diamond

Hi Dr Phil 

I was in a divorce with my first ex and 3 weeks after I moved out the woman he was interested in moved into our home. She was a very controlling person and they both did not want me to see my 2 children that he had custody of. My ex and I had 3 children 2 boys and 1 girl and we split them up I kept our daughter and I let him have the boys. He was always trying to keep me from seeing my two boys. When I would call he would hand the phone to Cindy and she loved to call me names, slut, whore and God only knows what else. I wish they could have considered the kids and we could have worked together to get along for the kids sake but it didn't happen. They wanted to keep me from seeing the boys. They finally figured out a successful way I believe they told the boys I didn't want to see them and they called me one Sunday and told me the boys didn't want to see me. I figured it all out when one of my sons got into a car accident and was in a comma and he is dead now. The oldest boy won't have anything to do with me. It is too bad when parents can't put their selfish differences aside and just get alone for the kids.  

Diane 

Unless she wants to support him for the rest of his worthless life she better kick him to the curb. he is looking for  a mother not a wife. I got rid of 2 just like him because they would not work at all. the last one even tried to lay a guilt trip on me in reference to my not being a Christian because I took him to the nearest homeless shelter. She sure can do better than that. I would rather be alone than support a lazy man. 

thanks 

Diane