Messages By: mistyc

I'm certainly not trying to rain on anyone's parade but, what if you become an alcoholic while you are drinking heavily all four years of college.  These girl's seem to think that when they graduate they will just stop cold trukey what happens when you can't stop.   Why can't you have a good time in college and enjoy being single and free without drinking like a fish??? 

Any response would be appreciated. 

I am a mother of two, and I have lost many friends and family members in my lifetime.  Many of whom went before there time, being so filled with rage dissrepects the memory of your loved one. 

I know this from experience.  Unless you are going to commit suicide or live in a mental institution for the rest of your life, you have to grieve and move on.  I have hundreds of funny stories and wonderful memories of my loved ones that I cherise deeply. 

I think that Daniel was abusing Brandy and I also think Brandy probably did run him down deliberately, but as an abuse survivor myself  I'm not so sure he didn't get what he had coming to him.   

Again I am a mother myself and I know it is easy to be blind to your children's faults.  Maybe Daniel's Mom feels more guilt than anger because she didn't help Daniel get the professional help he needed to deal with his own rage. 

I ended a relationship with a fiancee that I had been with for three years solely because he couldn't commit.  He bought the ring, but just could absolutley not bring himself to set a date to get married.  Marriage was important enough to me to move on.  I honestly think you know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone within a year of dating them.  My thought was if I am good enough to be a girlfirend I am good enough to be a wife.  I ended the relationship and a year later I met the man I would later marry.  The big difference in these two men were man #1 had no reason whatsoever to fear commitment, my husband comes from a broken home and had endured a nasty divorce of his own  but he loved me enough to marry me.  We have been married for 15 months and are expecting our first child together.  If you have dated your boyfriend for three plus years chances are very very slim that you are going to get married to this person. 

I don't understand what being thin has to do with self worth.  It really doesn't matter how svelte your figure is if you contribute nothing to the world.  What would be so wrong about trying to be more like Eleanor Roosevelt or Rosa Parks and less like Mary-Kate Olsen or Paris Hilton? 

Thin doesn't mean beautiful, and having your rib cage stick out away from your body is not sexy. 

I am, what we call down south, a "big girl".  Although I am a married lady now back in my single days I had lots of boyfriends and dates, and party invitations. I was not popular because I was slender, I was popular because I am a lot of fun.  I have a wonderful sense of humor and an inner joy that draws people to me.   

Remember girls physical beauty fades, but inner beauty lasts a life time. 

I read the previews on Dr. Phil.com but I wasn't aware that this show was going to feature ADULTS. 

If your real life is so boring or pathetic that you have to live vicariously through a celebrity you need professional help.  Personally I am to busy with working full time, housework, husband, and kids to be obessed with anyone.  In other words get a life!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Sex is important!  my husband I have have a great sex life, which in turn keeps us happy, which makes life better for our children.