Messages By: mistyc

I have a 16 year old nephew that is a WONDERFUL young man.  His mom, my sister, and his Dad divorced when Ted was 2 and his piece of garbage Dad left and never looked back.  Ted has had a terrible time with feeling abandoned, he has always felt that he must be lacking in some way or his Dad would want to know him.  When he was 12 he had a particulary bad episode and had to be admitted to a physiatric hospital.  At this pint my sister tracked down the Dad and he had the NERVE to tell her that he was married and had adopted his wife's children and that the new family knew nothing about his former marriage or child nd he wanted to keep it that way.  So if Ed Sevin or anyone that know him reads this I think you re something that I scraped off the bottom of my shoe

 

Misty

I also have depression but I control it, it doesn't control me.  I made a state to state move and I was without health insurance fir a while but I STILL bought my medication.

Laying in bed all day is not depression that is laziness pure and simple.

A good tip is to set your alarm for a decent houra nd then get up and take a walk around the neighborhood.  Once you are fully awake you are less likely to climb back in bed

While I agree ths grandmother was indeed a shrew, she had a valid point.  The mother asdmitted having had an affair.  Last week Maria also admitted having had an affair. 

If you are unhappy in your marriage do you really think that having an affair is somehow going to help?? my husband has been the one and only man in my life since we started dating and it wouldn't have mattered who our daughter (2yo) looked like I KNOW who her father is because I have been MONOGOMOUS for 5 years.

 

If this couple can't include everyone in the festivities then they should elope.  Picking and choosing which relatives you "allow" to attend the ceremony is a crappy way to start a new life together.

When my husband and I met  I was 32 he was 30 divrced with a daughter and I had no children and didn't want any children!!! we agreed that we wouldn't have any children today.  About a year after we met I decided that I did want a baby after all.  Fortunately my husband open to the idea, HOWEVER it was discovered that I also have PCOS so it took me several months to concieve.

 

If my husband had said no he didn't want a child I would have had to abide by his decision becuause that was the deal I made going in