Messages By: jane32343

I am really looking forward to this show.  I believe that so many couples really don't have a clue to what is involved in pleasuring each other.  And it starts with communication.  I mean, honestly, this is the person with whom you plan to spend the rest of your life and the person with whom you are the most intimate - talk about what you like and don't like (preferably with your clothes on - away from the bedroom)... 

And don't be afraid to give your mate a running play by play on what feels good or what doesn't...how else are they going to learn?  There is so much to learn and the benefits and rewards are endless.  And please, don't be shy - this is the man you love - your best friend, certainly you can talk to him, tell him what feels good - Oh!  Yes!  A little harder, or go slower, or OH! YES!  THAT'S IT!   

If you're having difficulty having an orgasm, RELAX!  Relax, get into yourself and what you are feeling.  If you concentrate and really think on what you are feeling, what your husband is doing to you...it will come, believe me it will come - and then you'll be on top of the world! 

I always let my lover know I'm thinking of him - always...from sexy messages on his cell phone - to sexy and erotic emails.  I love the idea of his sitting in his office having erotic thoughts about me.  Wow!  And then when he gets home - well, you can just imagine how glad we are to see each other!  Sometimes, we even have supper!   

Yes, we don't have children to worry about - so that gives us much more freedom, but don't be ashamed to hire a baby sitter and rent a motel room! 

We are in our early 60's...and hardly a day ever goes by that we don't enjoy making love to each other.  On the weekends, sometimes it's two and even three times a day.  We love the intimacy, the closeness and the pure joy of giving pleasure to the person we love more than anything. 

And although I applaud anyone who is comfortable enough about themselves to be ok with experiencing their own fantasies - whether it's sex in public (don't knock it unless you've tried it) or multiple partners or whatever, my lover and I have way too much fun with each other - sorry, I'm not sharing.  I have a problem with adding a third person to our bed - making love to each other then becomes sex.  Maybe we're just "old enough" to think that there is a difference.