As a trucker or janitor, but all of the truckers and janitors I've ever known have more class.
There's nothing wrong with Becky as long as she hangs out with like minded people. (And I know a few who she'd love to be with.) Obviously her family is NOT like minded (and neither am I). She comes off as trashy, selfish, trashy, rude, and trashy. I think I mentioned trashy?
I thought that her "I got the promotion" thing was funny, but she said that she does it at EVERY birthday party. Ok, once is hilarious, twice still funny, but when you can time it down to the second? Start the eyes rolling.
There's a limit. She knows what it is but chooses to go beyond it.
She says she doesn't care what people think, but from having been there myself, I know that she cares a lot. If she honestly didn't care about what people think she wouldn't continue to try to get their attention (with frosting for example). She would just go her own way.
The people who says she's a breath of fresh air wouldn't find her so fresh when they have to deal with her day after day. She's a lively diversion from reality for her 15 minutes of fame, but after they're done laughing at her, people continue on their way with friends who love them and respect them, not ones who treat them like garbage and think it's funny. (Cue the husbands...)
I feel so bad that she's going through this now instead of her teens or twenties when people just expect it of a person and are more lenient about these things.
I hope that she can work things out without losing her family.