Messages By: dw20052

     I have an idea how you were raised yet to blame him for getting her pregnant. They are a married couple who used children as a way of putting their marriage together. I have little respect for a man that would allow that to happen in their home. Yet she is the one with serious anger problems. What will probably happen is she will file for divorce and soak him for everything he will ever be. Marriages are to be a combined effort not one demanding of the other. You must not be aware of what it takes because if you did you would not be so accusing. Where is the support for a father even though he was wrong for supporting his wife. Or does it matter his  motive, just he is the man it must be his fault!  

Yes if you had followed my story you would be expecting this.  You cannot hide the fact of sexism you are displaying. My daughter has been gone for 19 years , whenever I am able I do another search.  I will not pay to find my daughter, all that does is create a market of illegal activity. When was the last time a show was done on a father loosing his children? I have been on disability for many years and my favorite afternoon shows are talk shows.  I have a DVR and I have not missed many shows. You have recieved my letters regarding this and I get my standard Dr. Phil Show reply.  Now if you are wondering why I'm so angry, look at how the instance of child abduction by a father vrs mother ratio.  A father abducts a female child and it is considered something to be looked into. A Mother and it is a civil matter. Yes I understand my limitations as a parent and at the time of my separation my concern was for our daughter.   

The anger that I deal with everyday is multiplied everytime I see another report of a father being charged with child endangerment for removing the female child.   

What I would like to do to this father is illegal , now the females have another reason not to trust us as parents. The reason I did not stay around is that all of the bad done by men is now on my shoulder. I had to leave my daughter in the hands of her mother because at the time men were the enemy and in a way we still are.   

If this is a cult then so are every religious group.  I remember Jim Jones and what he had and that was a cult. The first part showed these girls and they looked healthy and somewhat healthy. No they were not their mothers size or even showed a propensity for the problem. When are we going to get  to the real reason for this broadcast, it will bring viewers to the  show  that is what Dr Phil relies on for sales of advertising. Yes the two girls have been indoctrinated into the community. Is this not what we call raising our kids? Yes this guy is 5 beers short of a sixpak.  Yet is he doing this to harm or protect? Is he doing it to get financial reward from the mother or the government? There are mothers who keep their children by accusing abuse. This is not to say it does not happen just that not every man is an abusisive pedophiliac.  When are we as a society going to recognise a man as a parent?  We have stay at home dads yet if they were to take the kids it would raise eyebrows and warrent  an investigation.   

    This first lady is not dealin with a full deck. I hope Dr. Phil can explain the rules of life. If she doesn't trust in the job she has done as a mother it is not fair that her own insecuritities of life intefere with her daughter and her family. Get a life, volunteer at a womens shelter where good sense is needed to help these ladies reclaim their lives. 

Yes I only have myself and a picture of a daughter that is 19 yrs old. I am as happy as any man who is tired of the majority of programs that show a mans anger.  No not all just a fact that daytime TV is geared to women. Now even nighttime TV is geared to women. Why because advertisers realise that we men are a minority in the stores. Instead of Dr. Phil taking someone who's problem relates to me his advertisers want happy women. Happy women BUY and sad or angry women POUT.  As you go about your day I hope you notice who is spending Americas money.  Yes I know you don't want me feeling angry or sad, it draws attention to feminine arrogance. I grew up in a mans world and I have seen it stripped from our control and look at us now. I believe that there are more women who create an unhappy home than a happy home. I don't have the resources to investigate so how about Dr. Phil showing a functioning house with the man as the breadwinner. It can be done without reading a book. Yes his books can help thats why wives are buying them. We as a civilization were doing fine with only one book to guide. THE BIBLE  

Lets see now, a young lady has a child and her boyfriend is not in control of his anger. Sounds familiar to me and I have not seen my daughter for over 18 years. Do I deserve not to have my daughter in my life? Am I an angry person more so now because of this?    

Hostage? what about how I must deal everyday. Wait I do not matter I am only the sperm donor. I raised her and worried every night that she may not be alive when i got home. She was diagnosed as having sleep apnea. Yet I go to work and come home everyday with no one carring  of my feelings.    

If we as men do not act in the way someone else says then we are not entitled to what we have achieved. If as the man of the house who pays for things should I not have some say in how I'm treated? When did we become slaves to our wifes?  You Dr Phil have sad  "if momma ain't happy no one is happy!"  So all we have desired is now not mine what have I busted my ass for? An ungratefull woman who only wants more to take? At least can I be made to feel welcome when I come home. No, days not done yet the wife wants more and I have to leave for more.  I asked her to call and let me know of what we need. I moved us within two blocks of a store but it's to hot. We lived in Glendale, Az it is not going to get cool for six months.  I wished for my daughter not to suffer and getting her able handle the heat is how you raise a child in a climate such as this. All I have ever wanted is to have a family. Not one that  needs of things or is sad or angry. I wanted peace in my family it's what a good provider does.     

IF PAPPA AIN'T HAPPY NO ONE CARES! (there was another way I wanted to state but my mom raised me better) When did we lose our rights as Americans?  Yes 19 years of  not knowing my daughters fate. NO ONE has said that they will help. I make less than money than most  everyone meet. Unless you have had a child and then society helps keep her away then do no judge. Not legally just for the fact she is the mother. I was nothing like this young boy yet here he is on national TV giving more reason to not trust men. Thanks Again Dr Phil   

I have been a viewer of Dr. Phils since its inception even before on Oprah. I have always admired his up front attitude when giving advice. What I have learned is that he is a smart man who knows where the money is spent in our country.  Every show I hope that he will stand up for the men in this country whose only wish is for a happy home. When ever I hear "when momma ain't happy no one is happy" .When are women going to take responsibility for their own happiness and agree to what they promised in their wedding vows. In case they have forgotten a little reminder. LOVE HONOR and OBEY. If there was a more equal representation of reality then I would be more caring of what I see and hear. You Dr. Phil have yet to addressed that I have not seen my child for 19 years. Was there abuse on both our parts yes. When I realized that the home I had created was no longer there for my rest it made me angry. What would you have done if Robin treated you in this manner? Do not answer with "you teach people how to treat you". Another blame game solution.   

You are a more intelligent man then to think it is always the mans fault. Then why are we the ones more often than not the one to blame. The one to pay. The one that suffers because it is so easy to blame us. There is ten minutes to go and the man is still in the hot seat.   

The night I left my wife and child in my mind it had come to me leaving or killing her. I am not a killer yet what has she done to make me feel as if it was my only choice?  Am I to blame for her actions anymore than she is to blame for mine? Yet she has had total custody without any legal action. What do you think my chances would have been? Today I would have hard time retaining custody, then it was an impossibility. Well it has now been an hour of one mans assinine behavior that society will go to sleep thinking of. Thank you CBS and Dr. Phil  

Here she is on national T.V.  doing the same thing she is professing to be against. Yet hers is a study on young mens behavior. You bring on two young boys and they are now marked as the ones responsible for their actions. Is there a two sided coin here?  Girls are the poor abused child and the boys are to be responsible for who they talk to. The young lady on your show enjoyed being a trap a little to much.   

There is no excuse for any behavior that involves a minor and sex, male or female. Yes I will agree that our society has made heros out of male survivors, they have gone on to marry the abuser.  This sting operation was to catch predators  by using sex. Sex is one of the strongest desires we must learn to control.  As a male of the human race I have the feeling that there is a plot to remove our right to breed. The woman has chosen the right to abortion, custody of children and payment for support. The ratio of this now leaves young women the ability to trap a man in his own drive. We are as Dr.Phil puts it visual creature, young girls use their maturing body as traps. Has anyone ever arrested a parent for providing tools used in seduction. It is not against the law to seduce but it is once you are. Look at it from a single white mans view.  A young lady wishes to share herself with you and if you are not aroused then how normal are you. I stay away from it  yet even I can be tempted by what I see.  Again a parent of a child who is exploring his/her sexuality on line should know how their child is communicating.  If they are lax in their resoponsibity then trouble is around the corner.