Hi everyone,  
 
This is the first time I have visited this board. I have studied anxiety disorders and bipolar disorder for about five years.  
 
I have supported a wife who suffers from bipolar disorder, a daughter who has bipolar disorder and a son who just overcame generalized anxiety disorder and agoraphobia using a home study CBT tape series, after suffering for his entire life of 43 years,  
 
Luckly I suffer from none of these illnesses.  
 
I looked up "borderline personality disorder" on Goggle and this is the definition I got: 
 
" In psychiatry, borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a personality disorder characterized by extreme 'black and white' thinking, mood swings, emotional reasoning, disrupted relationships and difficulty in functioning in a way society accepts as normal. "  
 
 
 
 
I hate labels. The problem I see is that if you are labelled incorrectly then you are treated incorrectly. Psychiatrists love labels, but I suspect often label people incorrectly.  
 
My son was labelled as being bipolar, but in fact suffered severely from generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) , which is a fear of virtually everything. GAD is an anxiety disorder, and I believe all anxiety disorders are a learned behavior, and as such can be unlearned using cognitive behavior therapy (CBT).  
 
Psychiatrists love to dispense pills and revisit your childhood memories and little else. Neither did any good for my son. They simply made him worse.  
 
Medication does help deal with the symptoms of anxiety and depression for some, but they will never reprogram the mind to think rationally. I believe CBT is the fastest and most effective way of reprgramming the brain to remove all the negative false perceptions and beliefs, and replace them with the rational truth permanently.  
 
Starting in October 2005 I offered a CBT course free of charge for people suffering from anxiety and depression. I just ended this free course a couple of weeks ago.  
 
People tell me that the course has been very helpful, but I felt something else was needed. As a result I am organizing a support group for people suffering from psycological illneses. This is not a pity party. The purpose is to put into practice what has been learned in the CBT course in a group setting, in a safe environment before using these strategies in the real world.  
 
The group also consists of people who are supporters of people who suffer these illnesses, as well.  
 
If interested click on my user name: "pinetree" . It will take you to my profile where you will find my e-mail address, and other postings I have put on various message boards.  
 
Pat