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April 21, 2006, 3:31 pm PDT

hahaha!!!!!!!!!!

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I know a lot of people talk about having unprotected sex, but let me tell you what I think unprotected sex means.  It might be a little old fashioned, but I believe that unprotected sex is having sex outside the protective shelter of a marriage.  Condoms can break, birth control can fail and can leave people's lives shattered and children feeling unwanted or even aborted.  I'm not here to condem anyone, but if we think of sex inside a marriage as being "protected", in all ways.  Emotional, spiritual, financial.  Its so sad to see this baby with a father who doesn't want her, and that thinks he should have a choice into being a father.  Parenthood is a choice, and when you have sex with a partner, even outside of marriage, a baby can be made.  Why allow this heartache to happen?  Too many babies are growing up out of wedlock without daddies or mommies that can adequetly take care of them.  Think people!!  These children deserve to be wanted!!  You know if this happened to this exact couple if they were married, this would not be an issue.  Marriage protects everyone.
could you imagine if these two people were married??? puh-lease! that child would be so psychologically damaged. it's disgusting. i think that yes, sex in marriage is the most "protected" but people are going to have sex outside of marriage, that's a simple fact. and the only way children are protected in a marriage is if it is a healthy marriage. believe me, growing up in a bad home environment is awful. AND i would like to add that just because a child grows up with only 1 parent does not mean they are inadequately taken care of. I know some wonderful parents that did a great job and have great kids who grew into great adults.
 
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April 21, 2006, 3:32 pm PDT

biased opinion

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 I am in favor of the father, granted I think he should have worn a condom.  My fiance had a similar situation except he wore a condom and it broke. The woman told him it was physically impossible for her to get pregnant. My fiance told this woman that he did not want any more children , he has 2 from a previous marriage,. The woman did not tell him until she was past her first trimester and told him that she was keeping the baby and that she did not expect him to have anything to do with the baby if he didn't want to. After the baby was born she changed her mind and took him to court, and he now pays $500. a month. He took all the precautions and still ended up with a child he didn't want and doesn't see but he does pay for.
don't you think that your opinion is a little biased since this is your fiance your talking about, and she is the "other woman?" you are invested emotionally and financially in this argument, and i think you're wrong.
 
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April 27, 2006, 4:03 pm PDT

plain and simple.

if these fat adults (i actually feel bad for the fat kids because it's their parent's fault) put half as much energy into exercising or thinking about what they eat as they do into complaining about their size and getting mad at those of use who look at them in disgust, they wouldn't be so fat. the problem with most fat people is that they don't want to take responsibility and try to fix it themselves. they all want the easy solution (ie weightloss surgery and the like) and that's the reason they ended up there in the first place (easy solutions: fast food, driving vs walking, etc). plain and simple.
 
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April 27, 2006, 6:07 pm PDT

it's not the fat

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Don't put all fatties in the same basket please, since I too am a fatty. I am on anti-depressant which make it more difficult to lose weight and just found out I have HYPOTHYROIDISM, had a complete hysterectomy due to a mass,so at 220 and not proud of it...there are alot of medical conditions that cause some people to be heavy. I am getting the medication and help I need to get the weight off, but alot of us aren't so lucky.
it's the attitude that accompanies fat people that i CANNOT stand, if you're big, and nice, and have a smile on your face, great, no problem. but I absolutely cannot and will not tolerate the fatties who walk around with a chip on their shoulder and snip at everyone in their path and want tons of accomodations and special treatment, i have a little brother with autism and we don't expect special treatment for him and he was BORN that way, he had no choice in the matter. it's the "fat" attitude that i cannot stand (whether it is people who are fat or skinny).
 

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