Messages By: wwuviks85

Quote From: ilmamma

I know a lot of people talk about having unprotected sex, but let me tell you what I think unprotected sex means.  It might be a little old fashioned, but I believe that unprotected sex is having sex outside the protective shelter of a marriage.  Condoms can break, birth control can fail and can leave people's lives shattered and children feeling unwanted or even aborted.  I'm not here to condem anyone, but if we think of sex inside a marriage as being "protected", in all ways.  Emotional, spiritual, financial.  Its so sad to see this baby with a father who doesn't want her, and that thinks he should have a choice into being a father.  Parenthood is a choice, and when you have sex with a partner, even outside of marriage, a baby can be made.  Why allow this heartache to happen?  Too many babies are growing up out of wedlock without daddies or mommies that can adequetly take care of them.  Think people!!  These children deserve to be wanted!!  You know if this happened to this exact couple if they were married, this would not be an issue.  Marriage protects everyone.

Quote From: nrudderham

 I am in favor of the father, granted I think he should have worn a condom.  My fiance had a similar situation except he wore a condom and it broke. The woman told him it was physically impossible for her to get pregnant. My fiance told this woman that he did not want any more children , he has 2 from a previous marriage,. The woman did not tell him until she was past her first trimester and told him that she was keeping the baby and that she did not expect him to have anything to do with the baby if he didn't want to. After the baby was born she changed her mind and took him to court, and he now pays $500. a month. He took all the precautions and still ended up with a child he didn't want and doesn't see but he does pay for.

Quote From: manicmomma

Don't put all fatties in the same basket please, since I too am a fatty. I am on anti-depressant which make it more difficult to lose weight and just found out I have HYPOTHYROIDISM, had a complete hysterectomy due to a mass,so at 220 and not proud of it...there are alot of medical conditions that cause some people to be heavy. I am getting the medication and help I need to get the weight off, but alot of us aren't so lucky.