Quote From: debbieofjcI saw part of the show today, and found myself yelling at the TV, "Tell them about FlyLady!!". 
I've had trouble with clutter, and feelings of being overwhelmed, not knowing what to do about it. 
I've read several books, including Sandra Felton's "How Not to Be a Messie" (and others). I got on a message board for "Messies" and saw someone talking about "FlyLady". 
The website is http://www.flylady.net. Flylady is Marla Cilley and her crew. You can subscribe (free!) and get daily e-mail reminders and essays to help you get out of "CHAOS" (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome).  
She can teach you how to get rid of your clutter and make your home a peaceful place. Her system uses baby steps (Our homes didn't get messy overnight, and it's gonna take some time to get it in order and keep it that way). My house is by no means great yet, but I'm improving! 
I highly recommend Flylady! She (Marla Cilley) also has a book called "Sink Reflections". 
 
Debbie in MO