i should give a little more history on the girl. She has no family. They disowned her at 15. Apparently over religious differences. She is very motivated and independent. She refuses to call us by our first names, insists on mr and mrs...... even though ive ask her not to, she says thats just how she was raised, its respect. I think its disrespectful to not call us what we ask. When i say hello to them both i have to say hello twice to her just so she will respond. She has taken my sons last name in emails, wears a ring on left hand that he has not given her.
His behaviour has changed in small ways, but very noticable. He seems very evasive with me and even the simplest question seems to make him quite defensive. He used to call alot just to see what i was doing and how i am. That has stopped completely. However in his defense i must say he is still very close with his dad, they always have been. They do alot of guy stuff together.
Do i let him go for awhile, treat him like he's treating me. I can't say anything to him about her becuase im afraid ill loose him forever. I think she is playing head games with him, she seems quite good at it.
