Quote From: tutucuteMy boyfriend and I have been together for 3+ years of those 3 years we have lived together for roughly 2 1/2. I thought I knew like the back of my hand and that we had no secrets until the past 6 months when I found websites on our computer for sex sites and websites where you can chat with other so called "singles" or involved ppl about getting together possibly for sex or just have cyber sex. I have confronted him once about it and he told me that it was him being bored that he would never cheat on me and that I dont need to worry if I trust him, but that he wasnt going to go on them again since I asked him not too. Well the other day the sites appeared on the computer again and this time there is more than just one. Im not sure what to do. Please someone help me give me some advice. I love him with all my heart and I know he wouldnt physically cheat on me but all the websites bother me I dont see what the problem is. Is he bored with me? Am I not enough? All of these woman on the sites are much skinnier and prettier than I am and I just dont think that I measure up to that. Please someone help!!!
It's like they are drawn to the sites. I actually hacked into my bf's email and found some very interesting things. IT's NOT YOU, IT's HIM! No matter what you say or do, he will never change his habits. There is something "missing" iside of him. They will lie straight to your face and never bat an eye. I had proof mine was messing around with many girls on the Internet. I found screen stills that show a girl performing various acts on herself and in the background was a copy of an email he was composing to me! HAH! Needless to say, my first thought was NOT that he was not cheating! He would say, "just ask me if you want to know." So, I did. He denied all of it. Said they were "cyber" friends! Gee, that's a close friend that will show you her poo-nah-nee on the webcam! Was he giving her advice on a strange mole growth??? I simply said, "I think I'll get me some of those "cyber" friends myself." I'm just thankful that I said I would never sell my house until I was married. Remember, the only person you can truly rely on is YOU!
And I don't care how they rationalize it, it's cheating. If they are doing something that they feel they have to hide, then it's cheating!
Quit breaking yourself down and break it off.
