Messages By: animalcat

The papparazzi are nosy. They should leave these people alone. C'mon, have some respect for them. Its none's business what they do behind close doors.  They have lives too. If I were famous, would I want someone always hanging around to see what I do next? I don't think so. The photographers should mind their own business and go about their own life.  

Being obsessed about a celebrity is somewhat ok, to an extent. I used to like Hanson, the backstreet boys, n-sync, 98 degrees,  and other music groups. I would put magazine posters on the walls or my doors. I would check concert times and other events too. I had to come to a realization that its just a crush. Later on,  after they took a different route with their music, I was not really into them much anymore. I think when the obsession gets out of control, then it becomes a problem.  

If I ever met someone famous, I would like to know how they got started in the business they are in and how they like it now as an adult. When I was little, I liked Amy Grant because she was a good singer, beautiful, and a wonderful woman. I wanted to be just like her, a singer with brown curly hair, and even get to sing with her on stage, just to have the cool experience. I had to face reality and understand that was just a fantasy.  Its ok to like a celebrity and enjoy their work, but to want to be like one, that is something that might raise questions. 

I feel so sorry for the family and their loss of their daughter. How horrible to have that happen. I can understand how her friends feel about her being gone. I know when you lose someone it takes time to heal through the process. I want the young lady who lost her sister to know she is an angel in heaven and is watching over her close by. She may not physically be here on earth, but she lives on in your heart and in the hearts of your family members too. Hang onto the memories you all shared with her. You have everyone looking out for you and protecting you too. Your sister loves you, just like everyone else does. Journal your thoughts, feelings, emotions about everything. 

 Write a letter to your sister, and talk to her about your day and what all you do. Its as if you are talking to her angel. She is so proud of you and your family with everything you do.  

My prayers are with you and your family and your sisters friends too. 

I must say, the show seems very interesting. I really do not know what to say as far as the guests on the show and how the women feel about intimate times with their husbands. I have not been in their shoes, so it would not be nice for me to make an unfair judgment. Passion and making love is something wonderfully designed between two people that love each other. I think if a woman has issues about it, she should talk to her husband about it privately and help him understand what she would desire from him. If there are certain things she is not doing, then the husband should be respectful about it, not persistent in asking her to do something she does not want to do, even if she was to fake it just to please her husband. It has to be real, not fake. She should enjoy intimacy and shareing her love with her husband. I am not saying that this is the case. There could be numerous reasons as to why these things are not comfortable for women such as the ones from the show.  

The comment about the threesome I read, how unhealthy. I would not even  dare think about it if I was married. That is not a wise decision. What was that person thinking. 

First of all, the first guest on the show, just because this guy was in the military does not mean he should run the household like that and be Mr. Big shot drill Seargant. Good grief, grow up. 

The last guest, I think its great what you are doing, however, it seems like your son is not mature enough to handle the responsibility of a drivers license, nor is he ready to drive. He should take drivers ed again. If I were a parent, if my childs maturity level was where it should be, I might consider it, but if I see they are not ready for it, then I will have them wait until they are much older and can handle the responsibility.  I would take the keys away and not let him drive if he is going to go way over the speed limits that are assigned out there.  

My goodness, how sad and tough that is. If she does not get help for Savannah, Savannah could become obese in a short period of time. Put  a lock on the pantry to where she cannot get into food. 

She is not eating because she is hungry, she is eating because she could be bored, or just the fact to make herself feel better on the inside. Throwing the tantrums must stop immediately! 

I want to say how great Kathy looks. You did the right thing by getting help and following through and not giving up eithe. Keep working on it. Strive for the best. 

Couldn't something such as this , if it does not get controlled, could this endanger Savannah? 

I never heard  of such a thing like that before. My goodness.