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April 5, 2007, 10:33 pm PDT
I understand!
Quote From: kimmalicious17okay... here goes. Im with my boyfriend of 8 months , and it's very possible that I could be pregnant. I know I am VERY young! Im in grade 12, adn 17 years old. and I have to take on the role of a mother, so soon. I know everyone is going to say well if you wenrt ready to be a parent you shoouldn't have had sex. easier said than done. You get all caught up int he moment, and then before you realize it's already done. now all im saying is that it's possible im pregnant. I've missed my period now for 2 months. Im sooo scared. Im afraid of having this baby if I am pregnant, because I don't want the child to grow up with a mother like myself, whos young, has no money besides money Im getting from my job. Im so afraid of not being able to take care of my child, or give he/she everything they need. I don't know what to do. this baby deserves everything in the entire world! and If I could give he/she the BEST life a perosn could ask for I would. Because this baby (if ther eis one) means the world to me. And I want this baby to grow up happy, well taken care of, and know that they're loved so very dearly! WHAT DO I DO? like I said above, this is only a possibility. pleasee help me. I will let you know if I am or not. but please nice comments, please just help me out a little bit here. I can't talk to my parents ! I haven't even told them. after all I don't even tlak to them or get allong with them. this would just be something else that would make them even more dissappointed in me. thank you soo much!! Kimm! </3 HELP! I am not going to berate you or be condescending... I have been in your shoes. When I was sixteen, I accidentally got pregnant. I was young, scared, and didnt know what to do. When I was three months along, I miscarried. Looking back, although I was scared to death, I really couldnt wait to meet my baby... and now I never will. So, if you are pregnant... Dont take it for granted. Some women will never have children, and some of us will never have the chance to meet our children. God wouldnt give you anything you couldnt handle, and i hope that if you are pregnant, you take it all in... hold on to your baby. it is the most amazing thing that will ever happen to you. It's bound to be hard... but it is possible. And wonderful.
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