Messages By: justme19

i am 19 years old and i got pregnant and it wasnt planned.  well how i found out was that i started my period and after a month i went to the doctor.  well the whole time i was pregnant i was bleeding.  i was worried but the doctors told me some women do bleed during the first semester of their pregnancy.  my boyfriend and i went in for the first ultersound and it was so amazing to see this baby inside of me and it was only 6 cm! well than for the second one we went in and there was nothing inside of me nothing that even showed that i was pregnant.  i never told anyone that i thought i did have a miscarriage. because when i was at school i went to the bathroom and there was this big blood clot and i thought nothing of it, but i feel so guilty for not telling my boyfriend about it that day.  i always think right now i would have a baby what would he or she look like, how would they sleep at night, and all these questions always cross my mind and i always start to cry.  and i look at the ultersound pictures from the first time we went in.  its not a fun feeling to lose a baby and be left with no answers why did it happen to me? and all those other questions unanswered. 

I think that we turn to medication to soon when it comes to children. When they are overly hyper we put them on meds before we even try to get them in something to keep them active and out of the home for a couple hours a day. There's so many other options than to put kids on meds right away. 

For older people I think that the doctors over prescribe them medicine, because they could be taking 6-7 or more pills a day and no wonder why they are not active and they only seat at home or in a nursing home room, because they don't feel well because of all the drugs in them. 

I was on 7 different medicine and some of the meds I wasn't quit sure what they were for, and I felt like crap throwing up and having headaches, so I stopped taking all of them and I felt 100 percent better.  The meds are to help you get better, they only make you worse when your on so many.  Some of the prescriptions are for the same thing. They just want your money for buying the prescriptions they give you, and than for you to come back because your still not feeling well. I think their should be a limit of how much a doctor could prescribe you.  

I don't know maybe I am wrong on my opinion, but who knows who is right because everyone sees things in their on way.