My Hubby and I have been married for four years and have little or no sex .
I went through the first three years feeling fat, ugly, unloved, unwanted, I continually harrased him about sex, I wanted to talk about it and get to the bottom of our problem, he didn't feel comfortable about talking about it at all.
The thought of him having someone else was not even an aoption, my husband comes home right after work, and wants to spend time with me, we are best friends, I wondered if he was gay!!!
I was always the one trying to initiate sex, and he ALWAYS turns me down....
Well, I had a talk with is doctor during one of his visits and asked him to mention having a testosterone test to him, he did and My husband reluctantly agreed, and much to his suprise, his levels were extremely low!
He even called himself a girly man, lol... so that actually made me feel better, knwoing that I was not the entire problem, he had NO DRIVE!!
So he was given the patch totry and it did nothing, he wore them for six months, the doc even raised his perscription to two patches and his levels only increased slightly...so he stopped wearing them...
Now we have nothing, no intamacy at all... I am a forced celibate.
I am head over heels in love with my husband, I adore every moment with him, we never argue, he doesn't go to bars or watch sports or hang out at his buddy's, he is home with me...
help...what should I do now???
should I just be glad that I have a gerat man that loves me , or be selfish and think of my own sexual needs???
