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hopeful
September 22, 2005, 1:08 pm PDT

Bi-racial

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I know your thoughts/fears, my father was very afraid for my child when I was carrying her (she's bi-racial).  Anyway, the only thing that I said that really comforted him was this:   

Every child is going to be picked on for one reason or another, if it's not because the child is black/white/hispanic or whatever else, then it's going to be because the child is too fat, too skinny, too ugly, too pretty, has glasses, has buck teeth, doesn't have money....there are so many things that kids will pick on other kids for and there is nothing you can do but try and teach your child to not be hateful!   

I haven't had any issues with my daughter or my step children about there race, ususally it's some other reason they are getting picked on, if at all.  

  

I have 4 wonderfull biracial kids. Believe me, I or my family couldnt love them any more than what we do. They are not black, and they are not white, they are the most beautifull ,[inside and out]people you could ever know...Why cant we all just get along. Know matter what color  we are, are BLOOD is all red, and we all bleed. 
 
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September 23, 2005, 3:55 pm PDT

ONE RACE.....

  I am white, and my kids father is black..My kids are the most beautifull people in this world. We do'n't look at them as if they are WHITE or BLACK..... There is only one race, and that is the human race. We are all people, we breath air, we drink water, most of all,{ ALL ARE BLOOD IS RED..} We all bleed the same..GET REAL PEOPLE, AND GROW UP.... 

 
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September 23, 2005, 4:05 pm PDT

god bless you girl..

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I always avoided message boards that had the word "family" in the title. 

It thought I would come here and read magical stories of perfect families 

who loved and supported each other no matter what.  Then my good friend "guilt" would appear and sit on my chest...(he weighs 475 lbs.) I am learning that families like that don't exist for the most part...I'm sorry for what you have gone through with your family. 

  

The other day as I sat in my therapists office lamenting the abandonment and betrayal of my family when my brother molested my son years ago, she said that behavior and reaction is the norm.  Family dynamics is a strange phenomenon...she told me of a woman who's soon to be brother-on-law molested her son and her own family closed ranks around him to "protect" him...he hadn't even married their other daughter yet...can you wrap your brain around that one???  Turns out he was pretty handy around the house and did a lot for his future parents-in-law...extracting yourself from that kind of toxicity can be excruciating but who needs it I say...I have bigger fish to fry.  Like speaking out to help make change to protect children in this world of ours.  I am actually grieving the lose of my family...I loved them...I have some good memories....but they don't love me...and they are not the people I thought they would be for me when I needed them.   

  

I wish you strength and joy in who you are!!!!! 

Dont worry, everything will work ok. You did the right thing.. 

 
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flirtatious
September 23, 2005, 6:26 pm PDT

TO : DR. PHIL

     I really love what you have done for people. You are a great person, and I watch your show everyday. You have done alot for me, and I have not even met you yet..I thank you so much.......
 
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upset
September 28, 2005, 3:48 pm PDT

SECRETS

     When I was 18 years old I became a street walker, nobody new. I stayed a street walker for 18 years, with the same pimp.  We had 4 kids together. During that time I was with him ,I WAS REALLY ABUSED bad,{ in front of my kids.} My two oldest kids got me to leave there dad, and to leave that whole life behind me.. It's been three years now, and my life is really good. My kids have helped me so much, and show me that they love me everyday..It has been a real hard road, but I could not have done it with out them. My kids and I are the only ones who know about are lifes in the past. Should I keep it a secret or should I let my family know what happen to us?
 
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embarrassed
October 31, 2005, 5:27 pm PST

DRUGS

 I can really relate with you all. I am a mother of four children. My oldest is 19 and 15,11 and the youngest is 6. I was using drugs for 5 years. and I have been clean now for alittle over 3 years. What I put my kids through was hell, but if it was not for the love that my kids gave me I would probably still be doing drugs. My kids are what help keep me stronge
 

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