Messages By: midwestgal

Yes your married life will be like this if this is what you settle for!!  

When you say he doesn't want sex as often as you, what do you mean- how often do you actually have sex?  

Also, have you tried to deny him when he does want sex? Just give it a try and follow through with your "no"... just roll over and go to sleep!! Payback!! Why do you allow him to just use you as a form of relief, yet when you are in the mood to be intimate, he shuts you out? Not fair!  

You won't get him to compromise because he's a man who is full of excuses. Please know this has nothing to do with you!! It is about him and his own deep seated issues.  

As for a solution, have you discussed trying natural supplements that could boost his sex drive? Atleast talk about it, what would be the harm? When you are young and healthy, he shouldn't need viagra at this point, but supplements are for all ages. i wish you well! 

Hi!  I am Nikki I' ve been in a relationship with this guy for over five years.  He is 41yrs old and does not seem to want to settle down.  I want to be in a serious relationship that eventually leads to marriage.  He stated that he would marry when he turned 40 but nothing happend at the time when he told me this he turned 40.  I' am no longer seeing him but would love to share the rest of my life with him I do truly love him very much.  We have amazing sex and conversation he is one of my best friend and no matter what we go through we also seem to find our way back to one another.  I let him go knowing that if it is meant to be it will be and if not I will be hurt but will move on.  What should I do?