Messages By: kairshea

Dr. Phil   

i can't begin to tell you how i feel about this case. Beth and her family are in our prayers i hope they find Natalee so they can closure one way or another. I have 3 children and my heart goes out to Beth and her family.. 

I am so disgusted with the Aruba Judge and Police and in the show you have a tape interview with one of the suspects mom on it she has no remorse for what her son knows or did to Natalee.. That makes me sooo sick!!  Then the father and son that moved to Netherlands "NO COVER UP THERE".. My husband and i thought about going to Aruba for vacation with our children but there is no way i would go knowing that they take your money and you don't return home from was suppose to be an awesome island.. Shame on Aruba and everyone that is covering this up.. 

I will be writing the officials that you have listed also.. 

Shirley & Mike 

For all of those breast feeding moms congratulations it doesn't bother me at all to see mothers breastfeeding their kids.  I can't beleive those people that get offended when they see a mother feeding their child but think that people showing their underwear is individualism, and girls showing their bras as a fashion statement.   And a lot more I don't mention.  

The other thing about condoms being distributed in schools I as a mother of  3 little ones would not like for schools to give my girls condoms.  See that is another thing that is very upsetting.  Schools are allowed to distribute condoms so to prevent teenagers from getting pregnant but at the same time they exclude GOD from being in the pledge of alligence and to have GOD in courts or in anything to do with school..   Doesn't GOD Prevent evil, prevent wrong doing and shows how beautiful life is and yet they exclude HIM from schools.  What is this world coming too and we wonder why many kids are commiting Suicide.  In my viewpoint passing out condoms in public schools is wrong that is the parents decision and nobody else's. 

You are right it is public school so why are drugs, sex and crime in public schools!  There are also people who don't beleive in sex before marriage, in drugs and other items.  Everybody has the right to beleive what they want but to make exclusion of GOD is not right but that is my opinion. 

Let me clear something else before I forget, regarding the suicide I didnt' make myself clear last time. I know they are not commiting suicide because of the distribution of condoms in schools. They are doing becuase they are missing God or a spiritual individual in what ever religion they believe in. 

i would just like to inform you that, you DO NOT know the children, all you see is what the producers WANT you to see therefore, you really truely can't tell if the child is happy, and i am a personal friend of Bridget's daughter and let me tell you she is extremely happy with what she does she loves to sing, all the time.........trust me i know, and if she really doesn't want to do it then she really doesn't have to not only that but its good to be punished because some people just let there kids grow up without punishment and when they make a mistake at something they just quit.and all Bridget wants is for her child to get out of this "great" little town we live in and follow her dreams and if she wants to be a singer then she has to start NOW because there are So many others out there wanting the same thingbut know one is there to push them or even support them...so you just need to back off! 

One of the nice things about living in the US is that you and your children can travel and experience different cultures and beautiful places without ever leaving our borders.  Heck, in New York City, you can do that in a 10 block radius!  You are right when you say that harm can come to you right here at home as well as anywhere else.  But there are certain things you can do to protect yourself and your children from harm.  I don't allow my children to engage in behavior that significantly raises their chances of getting hurt.  I don't allow them to juggle knives.  I don't allow them to play in traffic.    I don't allow them to ride their bikes on the block where a registered sex offender lives, and I don't allow them to travel to a country where young girls get abducted and disappear.  Yes, I know, that can happen here in the good ol' U.S. of A. as well, but it is my responsibility as a parent to protect them in every way I can.  So no, my children will not go to Aruba while they are under my care. 

As far as myself, I wouldn't go to Aruba if it was free.  That is a personal decision, it has nothing to do with the boycott.  Do I support the boycott?  Absolutely.  But I really don't think refusing to travel to Aruba constitutes living my life in fear.  I think that's just inflamatory rhetoric.