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I think most people were being too hard the poor guy. 
I do not recall him ever saying he demanded it. Just that they tried it once eons ago and she won't do the follow through. They both are very loving and gentle with each other. They seemed totally supportive of each other and not at all divided. The only question was, Is she giving him oral sex or not. She says she is. He thought, if he didn't have a 'delivery' directly, then she was not. I saw nothing to indicate that they were fighting over it. 
 
Quite the contrary, she seemed genuinely sad that she did not have the arousal feelings she once did and he seemed sympathetic towards that. 
 
By the way? Yes! I think kids think it is a way to end a date without having to 'do anything'! 
 
Amazing. The most intimate connection possible and they use it as a good night kiss. 
 
Geez!