Messages By: blondie4u

I watch a 25 month old all day.. and we are in the potty training stage! He likes to pee in the potty but not BM on the toilet.. so we cant put him in underwear because he wont do both.. HE HATES sitting on the potty.. and when he doesn't go it frustrates me and we end up having a really bad day..maybe he's not ready? I dont know... Frustrated!!!

  My fiancee' likes to play online computer games with all of his free time.. it gets in the way of us spending time together since we arnt' lving together. He likes to play all night if he can. sometimes he will be in his game room for about 5 hours at a time. We have talked about it and he thinks I need to find a hobbie and we should do are seperate things.. but I like to spend time with him when im over there. He tries to not play as much cause he knows I dont like it, but he still plays a long time and I know thats really what he wants to be doing. I also try to not mind what he does.. but deep down I feel like thats more important. So i cant imagine a few years down the road if we have kids if he will choose games over them.. that would be horrible! will this ever get better??? or am I going to have to deal with it!?!?! Stressed!! ps. I do really love this man!!!! but I dont want my future kids to be punished for my mistake!

 I Have the same problem as the girl the satys out till 4am. I just discovered that I like to go out at night and dance.. but it's at a club and my fiance' calls it a "meat market" I dont go out to meat guys I just like to go out and have fun and he doesn't. Anyone have any ideas on how to work this out? Should he be more reasonable or should I give up going out? Help!!!

  I am 22 years old, and just married the most wonderful man 4 months ago! I have wanted children at a very young age, but was waiting for the right person to have them with. My husband is 11 years older then me, so I knew he would be ready to have children, but he's NOT!!! He wants to take his sweet time and wait! Wait for what??? he's almost 33!!! We discussed children before we married, he has aloways been optimistic about kids, he says he wants them, but is really careful not to get me pregnant. I let him know that I want kids right away but he takes it as a joke sometimes. I try to think like him, and feel it's best to wait a couple of years, but I get sad thinking about not being pregnant right now. I've waited my whole life, and I'm sooo ready!!! The reason he wants to wait is for some financial matters. We have some wedding bills, and he has some bills from his past, but its not alot, and it doesnt take all of our income. I'm working a second job to pay for it, just so I can have a kid, but I'm wore out, I feel it's useless, because i think he's using that as an excuse. I really feel we could afford one, we have our own house, and 2 good cars, decent income, and are very stable! Why is it all about when he wants to have one, and not about when I want to have one, i feel like theres no negotiation.I just dont get it!