HI MY NAME IS ELISIA, I AM A LITTLE SHY ABOUT THIS. SINCE I HAD MY BABY I DONT CARE ABOUT HAVING RELATIONS WITH MY HUSBAND. IT HURTS. AND MY HUSBAND DOES NOT EVER ACT LIKE HE WANTS IT EITHER. I HAVENT LOST ALL OF THE BABY WEIGHT AND IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THATS WHY HES REALLY NOT INTERESTED. BEFORE I HAD THE BABY BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT I ONLY WEIGHED 125 - 130. NOW I WEIGH 175. I KNOW I AM UNCOMFORTABLE WITH MY WEIGHT,BUT IM WORKING ON THAT I WALK EVERY DAY AND I TRY TO EXERCISE AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. ITS HARD TO DO WITH A 11 MONTH OLD. ME AND MY HUSBAND LOVE EACH OTHER. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 8 YEARS AND MARRIED FOR 3. I DONT KNOW IF IM UNATTRACTIVE TO HIM OR WHAT? IS ANY OF THIS NORMAL. I NEED YOURE ADVICE. PLEASE HELP ME.