Messages By: irishmom

Quote From: zimexlady

THAT HOUSE MUST SMELL LIKE THE GARBAGE DUMP........HOW UNSANITARY IS ALL THAT PEE AND POOP?  ALL FOUR-LEGGED ANIMALS SIT ON THEIR RECTUMS AND ANYONE WHO WILL WALK, SIT and SLEEP ON "THAT "  is living dangerously and filthily.

Quote From: zimexlady

.....and yes, my three kids have outside pets....only fish indoors.

Quote From: mks22878

Ok, I never breast feed my two girls but i also feel that there is a proper place to breast feed i mean have some kinda respect for those around u its not about the right to do it in public there is just a right and a wrong place to do it.  And as far as passing out condoms in school what the hell are u parents thinking i mean gee u are basically tells your kids thats its ok to do it because u are protected ahhh no how about u try being a parent and not hoping that the condom will do the parenting for u .. What is wrong with simple sitting down and talking to your kids about sex let them trust u enough that if they are considering it that they will at least come to you .. instead of going to a girl and say hey lets have sex my mom says its ok she even gave me protecting then they will start influsing the girls and then u have a chain reaction..

Quote From: mama2e

I have an idea for those who don't like to see women nursing in public.  Whenever and wherever you see a nursing woman feeding her child in public, go complain not to the mom but to the manager, supervisor, the most important person you can find.  Tell them how wrong you feel it is, but make sure you tell them that nursing moms should have a separate "mother's" room with rocking chairs, a nice changing table, maybe some soft music playing and a vending machine with soda, coffee, snacks, etc.  A nice massage chair wouldn't be bad either.  Maybe a little play area for the older tots.  If every place I went had something like that, I'd NEVER nurse out in pubice, lol! 

  

Sorry, don't mean to make light of this topic.  But wouldn't you rather nurse in a room like that than out on some bench somewhere getting glared at?  I know I would! 

Quote From: mrsmedic

We seem to be on the road too much, leaving too little time at home to clean! Because of my MS I am always tired, so I need to nap in the afternoon.  The big kids (12 and 16) watch the little ones (3 and a disabled 10 yr old) for me a lot, which helps, but then I hate to ask them to do so much cleaning after they've done childcare! It's a challenge, without a doubt. 

  

Quote From: irishmom

I married my ex husband 3 months after my 19th birthday.  He was extremely abusive and actually almost killed me one night. I left him several times but always came back.  I put up with it even after our daughter was born.  My biological father abandoned me as an infant and I didn't want my daughter to grow up without a father and he knew that and I think he took advantage of that.  So, I stayed with him.  One day when my daughter was about 3 months old, he drove drunk with her.  That was the moment that everything became clear.  She was the love of my life and the thought of him almost killing her tore me up inside.  At that moment, I left and never looked back.  To this day he has no relationship with her whatsoever (HIS choice).  I am now remarried to a man who would never dream of abusing me and he treats my two daughters like they are his own. 

Quote From: reginol

I'm sure alot of you will probably not like what I have to say, but I'm going to say it anyway. I listen to all the whinning and complaining on todays show and I'm so tired of hearing about these women that don't work outside the home talking about how bad they have it. I work, go to school, my husband works and goes to school and we have a nine year old daughter that needs my time to. I don't have anytime for myself either and I only have one child. Well, get a clue, if your husband isn't helping on the first child, what makes you think he's going to help when you have 3 or four. Besides didn't you know this going into the marriage that he wasn't going to assist especially if you are a "stay at home mom"... That should be something that is discussed before you have kids. Also, women that have small kids I have some sympathy for, but those of you that have school age kids and you are home all day doing "housework", why does the house need to be cleaned everyday? If you keep up with it regularly, it shouldn't be that much. For the lady that her husband kept having a vasectomy and it didn't work, how bout changing doctor's or the woman having her tubes tied. I guess I may be too hard on some of you, but I'm really tired of hearing about all these mom's that don't work talk about how much they have to do. Stop having so many kids....

Quote From: writer

Dr. Phil,  I am a woman of color and a stay at home mom for the moment after having surgery.  I watched the show Moms: Cut The Chaos and thought it was very informative, but am a little disappointed that not one of the moms on the show was a woman of color.  Our lives as moms are just as chaotic as a white moms, if not more so, and we have the same sort of problems emotionally and physically as any white person.  As a person of color who watches your show ( and I'm sure there are a lot of us), it would be nice to see at least one person of color more often than not, and that should basically goe for all the shows on television.