Messages By: irishmom

I just tuned in halfway through the show and saw the story of the LDS couple who's wife is not achieving orgasm.  I too am LDS, and thought I would post some advise in this area with a gospel perspective.  I have never had difficulty in achieving orgasm, but am trying to encourage my husband to have greater foreplay.  My husband and I recently found a book on Amazon that we ordered, but have not yet received.  I think it's a good book for any LDS couple who may be having sexual problems.  It's called "And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage Through Sexual Fulfillment" by Laura M. Brotherson.  On Amazon you can view the table of contents and the first few pages.  Take a look, it may help you out.   

I found it most interesting that many of the key areas of sexuality for men and women are opposites.  I asked my husband why he thought Heavenly Father had created us that way, he said it was so we would work together.  I believe that too.  I think it's another way we should be working together to become One. 

With that attitude I feel sorry for your dear husband.    I agree that a threesome has no place what so ever in a marriage that is asking for trouble.  However...... my husband and Ihave been together for 3 years and married for a year and half.  We still have sex all the time and we are both in our mid thirties. I am still very attracted to my husband and as far as I'm concerned as long as it stays betweens the two of us "anything goes"!    I htink it is sad that married couples put sex on the back burner, staying connected is very important to a happy marriage and it is a top priority to me. 

 I think its wrong for Anna to make 7 year old Micheal go to cheerleading especially if he doesn't want too. I also believe that if he continues cheerleading he'll probably not be liked by too many kids in his school and they'll probably begin bullying him and beating him up.