I really am not a shallow person but .......
I just don't find my husband attractive anymore! I know that physical intimacy can be adversely affected by underlying "issues" in a marriage however, despite some of the problems we experienced during the early part of our marriage, I was still physically attracted to him. Now, I find him rather repulsive. He is clumsy and no longer has the strength to hold himself up during the actual act, so I usually have to be on top or else resign myself to being smothered; he has developed "man boobs" as well as a "love handles" since he no longer puts forth the effort to excercise and/or eat right; and he now has an odor (no, he is not passing gas - he actually smells oily and stale) and the odor permiates our entire master wing, therefore I frequently sleep elsewhere in our home. Basically, right now I feel very frustrated physically, as well as emotionaly - thus my new user name.
