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November 14, 2005, 2:55 pm PST

You helped hurt his wife

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 I found my husbands emails and I can tell you first hand that these kind of men and yes even women, will tell themselves a fairytale.  My husband lied to these women about our lives.  I have videos about our family events that don't match what he told his "girlfriend".   I try to remember that there are always two sides to a story .  Maybe, you are being "played"  by a story.
If you beleive for one second that you didn't have anything to do with the breakup you are in complete denial!! If you had not slept with him in the first place he may have gone back to his wife, or found someone else, the point is , you hurt his wife too. Only thing I can say is Thank God what goes around comes around!!!!
 
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November 14, 2005, 2:59 pm PST

Me too

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See this is what is sick and unforgivable!! Your a woman going through the fight of your life and he's a coward.  All i can say is fight for U and your life and your daughters thats whats important.  I hate to say this but he put your life in his hands god forbid he gave you a STD with a death sentence.  I swear there should be laws against people knowing infecting others especially there own wife!! Love yourself get help! There is a man out there waiting to love and take care of you and see all the beautiful qualities you posses.  Your obviously a stronger woman fighting breast cancer so Please please don't let this worthless human being strive on your strength and beauty!!!!!!!! 

  

I had the same thing happen to me. My husband of 8 years dumped me while I was going through Chemo for breast cancer. He said he was attracted to big breasted women. What a piece of garbage. I blamed myself for years. I am fully recovered and married to the doctor who treated me. Life is truly amazing.
 
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December 5, 2005, 6:57 pm PST

Unsure and scared

Okay so I made a mistake. I am turning 40 next year and I have yet to start a career or know what I want or do when I grow up. I am married, no children and depend on my husband for finaces. I have not had a career ever in my life. i have always gotten by with meaningless jobs. I don't want to be one of those women without a nest egg because you never know when a marriage can fall apart. I don't have any money of my own and have to stay with my husband for financial reasons. I have a college degree but have never used it . I do not like office work. I love being outside or always moving. I have tried sales and it's not for me. Should I go back to school for something or is it too late to start a career?
 
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December 5, 2005, 7:01 pm PST

Career Goals

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You are running at the mouth and letting your emotions get the best of you.    If your kids are that old gather them around the table and be honest with them.  If their repeated question if how, how, how - then I would suggest that you put figures to paper and show them.  DO NOT forget to file for unemployment - it will probably kick in a week before Christmas, and then don't go hog wild. 

  

Yours kids need to be secured in their emotions and you need to be stable.  I myself have been thru this and I got on the phone to those that need to know and they worked with me. 

  

Keep in touch   

  

Rog 

Would it be possisible for your husband to work a second job so you could spend more time with your kids? Why not just get a part time job for now. I have always learned it is easier to get a job when you have one. You could be networking and you would be making money. Good Luck 

Zoey 

 
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December 5, 2005, 7:04 pm PST

Career Goals

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Hi Allan I just gave up getting my Masters in English and History (temporarily, anyway). I left college in the States to move to Denmark and get married in 1980. I'd just about completed my junior year and was 22. After 7 years of being mostly unemployed, I had my first child and decided to stay home with him. I had my second child 4 years later. When he was three, I started Adult Education courses in order to get a HF (college prep, for those who don't live in Denmark). I started university in 1996, and spent 8 years trying to get a degree, during which I landed in a depression, was separated, divorced, tried to support myself and two kids on SU (state stipend), had a triple bypass, remarried and developed anxiety disorder, possibly in connection with the anti-depressive medicine, without accompanying therapy, I have been on from 1998 until just recently. I had problems with memory and concentration, so I just couldn't do it any more, at least not on the same terms as my young, unmarried, mostly childless fellow students. I'm now considering a shorter education that will qualify me for a parttime job, where I can use some of the resources I'm convinced I have. Maybe then I'll be able to go back to school and work, both on a parttime basis. I'm 47 now, but I know what I want. I just have to figure out how to get it. I can tell you that you are not too old. It's a little harder, especially in Denmark, where the education system is still very stiff, but life experience is definitely a big plus for you, personally. this country may not know it yet, but you are exactly what is needed. Find out what kind of help and encouragement you need and where you can get it, then Go For It!
Hey Allan I am in the same exact boat. I want to finish school and am 39 years old. By the time I finish I will be 44. But I will be 44 years old wether I go to colllege or not. Think about it.
 
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December 5, 2005, 7:16 pm PST

How Plastic Surgery Has Changed My Life

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   NO BREAST IMPLANT IS SAFE 

  

PLEASE CHECK OUT MY POSTS HERE UNDER  CRUSADERCC AND CINDY007 

  

 IN TRUTH AND LOVE 

CINDY 

JUST ONE OF LITERALLY HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF WOMEN DEATHLY ILL FROM BREAST IMPLANTS;SILICONE POISONING;SILICONE ASSOCIATED DISEASES 

I'M HERE BECAUSE I CARE ABOUT AND LOVE YOU; 

AFTERALL; IT COULD HAPPEN TO YOU TOO. 

After researching about silicone breasts I made my decision to have my saline ones taken out and silicone put in. I love the way they look and feel. I have never had a problem. I have had saline implants for 10 years and silicone for 3. I do not have any health problems. My friend has had silicone for 20 years and has never experienced any problems. I am sure this is a unique situation to each individual. Some bodies are more sensitive then others. But before you go blaming the implants, think about your own health, for example do you exercise? eat right? have a low stress life? I think some symptoms can be related to other things.  

I am glad I had implants, I feel and look great!!!!! 

Zoey 

 
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December 5, 2005, 7:22 pm PST

Relationship Myths

Quote From: glasgowfan

 Wow, honestly, what materialistic people they sound like.  Instead of being happy for their daughter/sister that she's found the man of dreams, they are worried what the ring looks like.  What matters most here is how your girlfriend reacted.  Was she thrilled??? I certainly hope so.  If my man proposed to me, I would jump 50 feet in the air and do cartwheels, no matter what the ring looked like.  I hope your girlfriend has told them that she loves you and the realization that you want to spend the rest of your life with her, is more happiness than any diamond could ever bring.   As long as you two are happy, to heck with what everyone else thinks. 
Who cares what any one thinks. If the girl loves you she will marry you no matter what.  I was given a small diamond  when I got married because my husband couldn't afford anything else. On our 5th year aniniversary he gave me a 3 carat diamond ring. Patience pays!!!
 

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