Quote From: groovy_momCheck the laws in your state about this type of thing. I know in our state there is nothing the police can do. But, maybe he doesn't know this. Try asking your daughter what would a grown man want with a teenage girl? (One thing-SEX) She has nothing to offer him except sex.
I was able to save my niece from this type of relationship by explaining to the "man" that having a record as a sex offender will follow him for the rest of his life. Maybe that will scare him off.
Good luck!
Yes there are a lot of deadbeat guys out there, I understand that. But not ALL guys want sex from girls just because they are young. Some guys actually have a heart and thats what this mother needs to find out.
I am 20 now and my boyfriend is 31. We started dating when I was 17 and he was 28. Yea My dad thought all He wanted from me was sex, but i knew otherwise. This was something special and it definetly has turned out to be. Yes there are a lot of nasty guys out there, trust me I have been sexually assaulted twice and raped twice at a very young age. But as someone said, that mother needs to talk to this man, and allow him to hang around for awhile and she has to set the bounderies. Scope the situation out. But just because someone smokes a lil pot or is older, doesn't mean they are deadbeat pedophiles.
Just be aware, be communicative and don't just jump to conclusions.
