I personally, believe that what CONSENTING people do in their bedrooms & private life is their business. If you're not into the swinging 'lifestyle', then that's perfectly fine, but judgment shouldn't be passed on those who are into it. I also believe that if both partners are aware of the other's actions & are ok with it, then it's NOT cheating.
My boyfriend, who is from the south (Texas), has religion in his life & goes to Church, is an ex stripper & is bisexual ( I am Bi as well)... and you could classify us as swingers, because even though we haven't done it together as a couple yet (we met online & are in a long distance relationship), we've discussed doing it at some point, and *I* myself have already participated in a threesome with a married couple in the past. I also personally know someone else & his fiancee' who are swingers. Is this 'lifestyle' for everyone? No, of course not. However, It DOES work for SOME people. Should it be kept in the dark from the children (if there are any)? Absolutely! At least until they are much older. But as long as the partners are consenting, comfortable, happy & safe within the situations, that's all that should matter. Dr. Phil stated a great quote/saying that I wish more people would 'live' by, and that's...
LIVE & LET LIVE!
