Messages By: tajalvord

  As a 39 yr old man, married for 18 yrs, I have found that a wife is first and foremost my partner for life. My wife is my best friend, one who I can laugh with, a shoulder to cry on, the mother to my girls, Queen of her castle, and my true love.    It is my job to make her feel loved, appreciated, and secure,physically, emotionally, and mentally.

   I believe that over-protective parents teach children to become paranoid in all situations, the parents take away the child's ability to be a free thinker, and they become more dependent on their parents as they get older rather than independent.         As a parent it is my duty to teach my children about life, and the perils that come with it. At some point we have to trust our children and hope that we done a good job, this doesn't mean we stop protecting and teaching them, we CANNOT protect them from every pitfall in life. We can protect them from the dangers that we have control of. Give your children a chance to prove their ability and worth. 

 To me, those who are obsessed with celebs. need to return to reality. Celebs. have a life most people envy, but we need to remember they are human beings too, the only difference is, our society has made them bigger than they truly are because of a talent they possess. If you wouldn't be infatuated with the guy or gal next door, then why be infatuated with some celeb. you think you like because of his so called status in life.

    This man didn't want to be a daddy, if that was the case, he should have kept his plumbing in his pants. Whether or not the woman in question could or could not have children, when you make the decision to have sex, you make the decision to take all responsibility for what ever comes (pregnacy, std's, or what ever). God created us with the tools to procreate. We also need to remember that sex is for the MARRIAGE BED and not the search for the conquest. 

      This man needs to either get over it and raise his child, or not have sex until he is married. 

       Children bring joy to one's life that can never be descibed, only experienced. 

    By the way, his lawyer is a complete idiot.